Re: My Issue With Speckta.netI'm kinda new to this FOTD thing, once I used Specktra basically as an information source when I've started coming.
Still, I have an opinion about this matter. I don't think it's even about sugarcoating, but some comments just seem robotic and lazy, like the person says 'you look gorgeous', but doesn't seem to have taken the time to appreciate or even read what the person wrote.
I would never post a FOTD, because I don't like this kind of comment. They do nothing for me. I'd much appreciate CCs and especially tips. This is a space for discussion, to enrich our knowledge and skills.
It's a double edge sword thing, because I do love creating a discussion, but some people always think you are being rude when you disagree. That happened to me in a post today and I won't answer back because I know the girl won't see it in a nice perspective.
So, it makes us be silent in a space for discussion. This truly makes me sad, 'cos I'd like to tip one FOTD or two, but I'm afraid people won't get all the positivity I'm trying to bring in a longer term than a brief "You look great!"