Baby dream...

[boudoirblonde]

Ok, first off I need to give you some background information.

For my ENTIRE life I have never EVER wanted kids. 100% sure that I just don't want them at all. I told my SO this too and he said he is fine with that.
Even as a kid I never understood why everyone wanted babies, and why all the girls just wanted to grow up and get married, I just DID NOT get it. Like AT ALL.

The other day, when I was with my SO, the condom fell off and Im not sure it worked properly *SCARED*

Then last night I had a dream that I had a baby. (I was older, about 30 I think). And omg it was the CUTEST little baby I have ever seen! We called her Stella and my SO was AMAZING. We had no idea how to look after her, but we worked it out.

Then when I woke up I thought "omg the baby! where is the baby?" then realised it was just a dream.

Now I don't know how I feel

I dont think a dream could change how I feel? argh I dunno.

Not sure why Im posting exactly, just yeah, wanting some opinions I guess?

 

[nikki]

I was never interested in kids either. I was more interested in school and my career. Then one day I saw my sister's new baby and decided that I wanted kids too. My husband was shocked to say the least. I now have 2 kids and would love to have a third. So, yes I think it is very possible to just change your mind one day.

 

[M.A.C. head.]

I've always wanted children, and I've never understood the women who don't. I've never passed judgment because every woman has her own path, but I've never been able to see why a woman wouldn't want to experience motherhood. It's the most wonderful thing I've ever done, or probably ever will do. I have a few friends who've said that they never want kids, and I just told them to have their tubes tied, because there's nothing worse than an unwanted child.

I think that you should wait about two weeks or so after the condom incident and have a blood test done. If you're still not sure that you want to keep the baby, look into adoption.

Best of luck sweety

 

[MACATTAK]

I've always felt the same way you do. Once in a while if I see a cute baby, the thought does enter my mind. Then I think about everything involved, money, discipline, constant supervision, lack of sleep, having to make sure this person is a positive part of society, the list goes on and on. Basically I give myself a reality check and the feeling disappears. I'm not saying the feeling will never change, but as of yet it hasn't. Also, I have dreams sometimes that feel so real that I can't get it out of my head for a couple of days, but it eventually fades.