Does this mean I'm Bi?

[Cupcake Queen]

I recently discovered I really enjoy masturbating to lesbian porn and am quiet aroused by it.
I've always thought if the right girl asked me I would be with her sexually but I don't want a relationship with a girl the way I do a man.
I went out last night and saw a few girls I thought were sexy and wouldn't mind "hooking" up with if the oppurtunity presented it's self, however I don't think I would ever proposition a girl out of the blue.

I should add, I personally don't think I'm Bi, but someone has suggested to me that I might be and now I'm wondering if I'm wrong about my sexuality.

 

[LMD84]

well if you personally don't think you are bi then the chances are that you aren't! i think that most women at points have had sexual thoughts about other woman and masterbated over other women. i dont think it is a sign of being bi. i think the way to look at it would be would you actually want to be in a commited relationship with a woman? because being bi isn't just about being sexually attracted to a woman but it would mean you would be happy in a relationship with one. again if you cant imagine this then maybe you are not bi and just curious.

 

[katred]

I think that people really get hung up on having to define their sexuality. There are, of course, people who consistently think the same way about sex, but most people I know are more on a continuum, where they mostly prefer men or women, but that doesn't mean they're not occasionally attracted to the other gender. You certainly shouldn't feel any stress about the need to label yourself. Your sexuality is your own.

 

[Lyssah]

If you don't think you're bi then you're probably not. Personally I think somebody is Bi if they want to persue a realtionship with a girl the way they would a man.
A lot of women are aroused by other women but that doesn't make them Bi. As katred said - you sexuality is your own.

 

[Allegiance]

I think your classified as bi/bi-curious if you want to actually do something with another girl. Masturbating to lesbian porn doesn't make you bi.

 

[inishkai]

I agree with everyone here. You're probably just curious.

 

[thestarsfall]

As has been said, it's a continuum and, IMO, if you don't identify as Bi then no, you aren't Bi. But that doesn't necessarily mean that later in your life you might have a committed relationship with a woman. You are human, and humans aren't rigid.

 

[jackytheripper]

I've talked to my therapist about this before, because I'm not attracted to girls, but sometimes I'll have a dream about having sex with a girl. She said sometimes our brain has fantasies that it needs to play out, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you need to act on them. I'm not interested in women and could never see myself in a relationship with one! lol, but whatever your brain does to work things out sexually and get you aroused, go with it and just let your feelings come naturally. You don't have to question what you should be thinking or doing HTH!