LittleDevil
Well-known member
Ok, so this is somewhat a long story, I'm going to try and make short.
****Please dont leave me any comments about one night stands, or anything like that, thanks*********
In November of 2006, the playstation 3's were being released. I camped out in front of best buy with my brothers to get one. The group next to us was a bunch of guys. One of them was really hot, and he just stood out from the rest. I never really thought much of it (I have extremely low self esteem). So after those 40 something hours camping there, I never saw him again.....Until December of last year. I was at a bar, and he was there. I noticed him right away. Something about him I was intrigued about, and VERY attracted to him...I never just walk up to a guy and talk to them (again the low self esteem, and extreme shyness).....Well, I had been drinking, and I am not as shy with a few sex on the beaches.....I went and asked him if he remembered me, (mind you this was a year ago) and he did......we talked and nothing ever transpired....Ok, so flash forward to last weekend. I went to the bar with some friends. We walked outside and he was one of the first people I saw.....I was sooo excited, but I wouldnt dare go talk to him, until I had some "truth serum"......I had my eye on him all night, and when I finally was daring enough, I walked over to him and asked him if he remembered me.....and he did....Ok, that was 2 years ago when I first saw him.....So we talked and whatnot for a long time......my friends were ready to go, and I definitely wasnt.....I told them to leave me there and I'd get home somehow.....So about a half an hour later, his friend he was there with texted him and wanted to know what was going on, and he looked at me and asked me, like I was making the decisions....So i was ready to leave finally and I called a taxi.....well, he came home with me......i was in total AW....I mean I NEVER get the guy I want.....ok, so whatever happened and we went to sleep.....I woke up early the next morning (sick) and he was still sleeping.....I am sitting in my living room thinking "oh my gosh, did that really happen"......So I'm thinking to myself, ok, he's going to wake up and be like "what the f*ck, I cant believe I went home with her.....So I put it in my mind that it was a one night thing, and that was it.....he kept sleeping forever and i finally went in there in the afternoon and asked him if he was going to get up or what.....he gets up, comes out to the living room, where I am watching football and sits......were both kind of watching the game, but i'm ready to get it over with seeing as I had the pre-conceived notion that I wasnt going to see him or talk to him again.....so i ask him if he wants me to take him home, and he says sure......still not getting his shoes on or anything,.....so i ask, do you want to watch the game or what?......( i now look back and cant believe what a bitch i must've sounded like).......he puts his shoes on and im driving him home.....still in my mind thinking that this was a once in a lifetime thing......we didnt really talk on the way to his place, but it wasnt dead silent/akwardness either.....so i pull up in front, and he doesnt get out right away, he sits there and stares at me.....i didnt know what to do, so i responded with a "what?".....and then he said "well i guess i'll see you around" and then got out.....NO NUMBERS EXCHANGED OR NOTHING.....k, now I am thinking back and I felt like I pushed him away. I dont think it was going to end like I had prepared for. There's so many clues that it didnt have to end the way it did. I have spent the last week thinking about it 24/7.....like seriously stressing about it. I want to talk to him again and see if there's something there. I want to find him so bad, but I dont know how, and its not something that was just ok, whatever, its different with him. I keep looking at it both ways. I honestly dont think it ended right, and i was the one doing the pushing and then i think what if im getting my hopes up for nothing. i think it would be different if i knew that it was a one time deal, and that was it, but the fact that I dont know and cant get ahold of him to find out is killing me. I went to the same bar last night, but didnt see him. I think he had to work (he's military) I am going to go again tonight and hopefully he's there. If i talk to him and find out that what happened, happened for a reason, then ok, im fine with that, but I want to know if there can be more. I just have to know.....
I'm really sorry this is sooooo long, but I dont know who else to vent to and I need some MAJOR advice here.....
P.S. I hope this makes sense, I just typed away....
****Please dont leave me any comments about one night stands, or anything like that, thanks*********
In November of 2006, the playstation 3's were being released. I camped out in front of best buy with my brothers to get one. The group next to us was a bunch of guys. One of them was really hot, and he just stood out from the rest. I never really thought much of it (I have extremely low self esteem). So after those 40 something hours camping there, I never saw him again.....Until December of last year. I was at a bar, and he was there. I noticed him right away. Something about him I was intrigued about, and VERY attracted to him...I never just walk up to a guy and talk to them (again the low self esteem, and extreme shyness).....Well, I had been drinking, and I am not as shy with a few sex on the beaches.....I went and asked him if he remembered me, (mind you this was a year ago) and he did......we talked and nothing ever transpired....Ok, so flash forward to last weekend. I went to the bar with some friends. We walked outside and he was one of the first people I saw.....I was sooo excited, but I wouldnt dare go talk to him, until I had some "truth serum"......I had my eye on him all night, and when I finally was daring enough, I walked over to him and asked him if he remembered me.....and he did....Ok, that was 2 years ago when I first saw him.....So we talked and whatnot for a long time......my friends were ready to go, and I definitely wasnt.....I told them to leave me there and I'd get home somehow.....So about a half an hour later, his friend he was there with texted him and wanted to know what was going on, and he looked at me and asked me, like I was making the decisions....So i was ready to leave finally and I called a taxi.....well, he came home with me......i was in total AW....I mean I NEVER get the guy I want.....ok, so whatever happened and we went to sleep.....I woke up early the next morning (sick) and he was still sleeping.....I am sitting in my living room thinking "oh my gosh, did that really happen"......So I'm thinking to myself, ok, he's going to wake up and be like "what the f*ck, I cant believe I went home with her.....So I put it in my mind that it was a one night thing, and that was it.....he kept sleeping forever and i finally went in there in the afternoon and asked him if he was going to get up or what.....he gets up, comes out to the living room, where I am watching football and sits......were both kind of watching the game, but i'm ready to get it over with seeing as I had the pre-conceived notion that I wasnt going to see him or talk to him again.....so i ask him if he wants me to take him home, and he says sure......still not getting his shoes on or anything,.....so i ask, do you want to watch the game or what?......( i now look back and cant believe what a bitch i must've sounded like).......he puts his shoes on and im driving him home.....still in my mind thinking that this was a once in a lifetime thing......we didnt really talk on the way to his place, but it wasnt dead silent/akwardness either.....so i pull up in front, and he doesnt get out right away, he sits there and stares at me.....i didnt know what to do, so i responded with a "what?".....and then he said "well i guess i'll see you around" and then got out.....NO NUMBERS EXCHANGED OR NOTHING.....k, now I am thinking back and I felt like I pushed him away. I dont think it was going to end like I had prepared for. There's so many clues that it didnt have to end the way it did. I have spent the last week thinking about it 24/7.....like seriously stressing about it. I want to talk to him again and see if there's something there. I want to find him so bad, but I dont know how, and its not something that was just ok, whatever, its different with him. I keep looking at it both ways. I honestly dont think it ended right, and i was the one doing the pushing and then i think what if im getting my hopes up for nothing. i think it would be different if i knew that it was a one time deal, and that was it, but the fact that I dont know and cant get ahold of him to find out is killing me. I went to the same bar last night, but didnt see him. I think he had to work (he's military) I am going to go again tonight and hopefully he's there. If i talk to him and find out that what happened, happened for a reason, then ok, im fine with that, but I want to know if there can be more. I just have to know.....
I'm really sorry this is sooooo long, but I dont know who else to vent to and I need some MAJOR advice here.....
P.S. I hope this makes sense, I just typed away....