Am I a drama queen? lol

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    Am I a drama queen? lol

    k... So like this is whats going on...

    I've been kinda dating the guy from that other post about the great first date. We've been off and on (he was gone for like 3 weeks in NY on business) for the last monthish, and he just got back. So we've been back in contact, and he's been kinda of an ass lateley. Anyways he really pissed me off Tuesday night when we were chatting on Yahoo, and then totally wrote this mean text message in response to me asking him why he's suddenly being so mean to me. And then refused to answer any of mine when i wrote him back (they were not mean in any way, just more questions). Apparently I was giving him attitude. Which may or may not be the case, considering he didn't say bye to me before he left (he called one of my co-workers though who he was friends with. I knew he called since I could hear the conversation.), or call or text me at ALL during the 3 weeks he was in NY. So I think I had a right to be a little annoyed with him when he contacts me when he gets back like he never left.

    Anyways, i decide to be the better person and let it all go. It's not a huge deal whatever, and call him up, and dont mention anything, and just ask if I can go over. Of course he says yes, so I finish getting ready, make myself look all nice for him and drive over. So I get there and like, I have to hug him, he just let me in, and didn't even try to show me any affection. He didn't even try to kiss me. So like whatever we dont have this hugely serious thing going anyways, i dont let it bother me.

    He's always a good host whenever I come over which is nice, and gets me some dinner that he cooked that night. Mac and Cheese he's a gourmet chef alright =P So i sit down with him on the couch and we watch a little TV, chit chat, whatever. Now I've prolly been there for about an hour, and to be honest, I didn't come over to watch TV, and haven't seen him for almost a month. So i start to tease him a little, and try to tickle him. I'm like basically asking for some attention here, and some physical contact. I dont know how I can be much more clear without totally comming onto him. Any other guy that I've been dating in the past, and little light teasing always ends up something more. I mean serously. If I'm touching you, it's probably ok to touch me back. But he gets all pissy about it, and when he does finally touch me, it's not nice at all. He squeezes my knee really hard and does it in a way that makes it hurt.

    I mean WTF? Is some stupid show on TV that important? And why did you ask me over if your just going to give me the cold shoulder. Yay, lets sit quiet and pretend we're alone in the room. I mean fuck, at least put your arm around me and cuddle or something. Now I'm not one to give up easily, and I'm so not going to sit there. Pay attention to me damnit LOL! So now he threatens to throw my shoes outside if I dont stop, "bothering him." WTF? Fine, be an ass. At this point I'm not about to stop, and he grabs my shoes and throws them into the street. Whatever, they were like $20.00 heels I bought for work, i dont really care if they get a little scuffed.

    So now were just sitting there. I'm not about to give him the satisfaction of getting up and getting my shoes, there just on the drive to his house, so there not going anywhere. Yay, this is fun. Then his phone rings. OMG, the asshole answers his phone, and walks into the other room. At first I'm just sitting there, alone in the living room while he's probaly got some other whore on the other line. Yah were not in any sort of comitted relationship, and I know he goes out. But dont do it in front of me. Even worse, dont go and set up some date for another night with some dumb bitch while i'm alone on the couch. Can you tell I'm a little annoyed?

    So I get up, grab my stuff, walk out and slam the door as I leave. Now I'm walking down the driveway to my car, and he's still got the fucking phone in his hand and he's yelling after me asking why I'm leaving. I hope whoever was on the line could hear how much of an asshole he was being. I should have just stayed at home. fuck, i hate guys, why are they all assholes!

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    I would have done the same thing in your situation.. "oh you think your so great throwing my shoes out... yeah dont care...sucka"

    guys being dumb.. they are good at that.


    haha "why are you leaving".. Was he lacking common sense at this point?

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    No! Definitely not a drama queen ! Guys can be so stupid sometimes

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    I think this guy is trying to control you. He is immature and is really not into you -- so he tests you to see how much and far he can push you.

    drop him like a rotting piece of meat. Men like that do not change and he will be an ass forever and make you feel like you are the one who did something to him.

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    Just being honest, but yes, you're a drama queen. Guys don't like girls who seem needy or desperate. If you are not married to someone or have been with them for years, don't expect them to devote all of their attention to you while they are on a vacation. You guys weren't in a serious relationship so you can't expect him to give you all of his attention. As long as you have this mindset, you will not find a meaningful relationship because guys scare off really easily, and if you make him think that you are crazy or stressful in the beginning, he will be done. If he wanted you, he would have been standing on your door step the minute he got back from NY, he honestly just wasn't feeling it.
    Another thing, don't be THAT GIRL calling another woman a whore or a dumb bitch for being on the phone with the guy who is NOT your boyfriend! The guy is the one you should be upset with, and you should have enough self respect to not be with a guy who doesn't want to make you his. I wouldn't waste months of my time with some man who didn't want to commit! You're better than that, girl

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