Ladies: Have you cheated?

Cinci

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ok, so with the discussion about "all men cheat" in mind.. I decided to create a poll to go with it to see just how women compare in relation to our perception of men's habits.

Ladies.. Have you cheated?
 

jdechant

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Never cheated..proud to say it!! I've done the harmless flirting, but I could never cheat!! I have a guilty conscience...wouldn't be able to handle that on my mind...plus I totally believe in Karma...and I try to stay on its good side
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iadoremac

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no i havent because I wouldnt want someone to do that to me and so far i guess you could say i have been lucky
 

TISH1124

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I have been cheated on once that I know of...But I have NEVER cheated on any man I have been in a committed relationship with. EVER! It's hard enough to keep up with one relationship let alone try and juggle others at the same time. Besides that I am not good at lying or hiding things...I would get caught immediately.

And besides...If I get something...I want to know exactly who to torture and kill...don't want to guess where it came from...
 

Amber*Christine

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I did once, but it was only because the guy I was with treated me like absolute shit. But when I'm in a happy relationship where I feel loved and secure, well it just doesn't seem worth it.
 

florabundance

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No, it would eat at my conscience. And I don't feel like I have the capacity to purposefully wrong somebody.
I have been cheated on, so that definitely adds to my stance.
But I mean, obviously I find other guys sexy or attractive when in a relationship and I am a flirt..but for me, there's a line.
 

FiestyFemme

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Originally Posted by iadoremac
no i havent because I wouldnt want someone to do that to me and so far i guess you could say i have been lucky

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I don't and wouldn't cheat because I wouldn't want it done to me. Even though it has happened to me, I fully believe what goes around comes around, you know?
He'll get his, and I'm totally not worried about it.
I could never handle the guilty conscience, and I guess I'm just the kind of person who'd rather move on to someone new than to try to juggle two relationships and risk hurting someone (well worse than a breakup would).
 

benzito_714

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I guess I am the only whore here! I have cheated and have been cheated on. I never thought I would cheat but the relationship was going nowhere and I thought we had come to an understanding that we were free to see other people but I was the only one to act on it. As far as my being cheated on I was so into my schoolwork and job that I let it happen right under my nose. The guy was a real manipulator and because I am such a softy he would play on that. To make matters worse everyone could see through him except me-maybe if I paid more attention but I wasn't that interested.
 

Hilly

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^ me too! lol. I made out with a few guys while dating others. I was young and curious to see what else was out there.
 

Dahlia_Rayn

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Add me to the hussy club...I am not proud that I cheated, but I did, and for reasons that may seem silly to some, but made absolute sense to me at the time.
 

Brittni

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I've kissed multiple guys when still in the "seeing" them phase... not like official boyfriend/girlfriend stuff, but that's it. So I voted no because I would never cheat on an actual boyfriend... as small as kissing or as big as booty. lol.
 

Stephy171

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Quote:
Originally Posted by jdechant
Never cheated..proud to say it!! I've done the harmless flirting, but I could never cheat!! I have a guilty conscience...wouldn't be able to handle that on my mind...plus I totally believe in Karma...and I try to stay on its good side
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took the word right out of my mouth.... or fingertips i should say lol lol
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NutMeg

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I've casually flirted with a couple guys, but only with the understanding that that is allowed in my relationship. Anything further, no way.
 

darkorchid

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*Hangs head in shame*
Sadly, regrettably...very guilty of the offense. I am definately not proud of it and it still keeps me up at night sometimes the amount of wrong I did to my boyfriend at the time. I cannot claim the relationship was bad or that he did anything wrong to me - he was an amazing man to forgive me for it and try to work through it.
But we can only try to do better as life goes on can't we?
 

shea_47

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i suppose i have cheated, kissed another (totally random) guy when i was in a relationship... relationship was too serious for me, he was too controlling for my tastes, it was my rebellion. *shrugs*
 

Beauty Mark

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Quote:
Originally Posted by benzito_714
I guess I am the only whore here! I have cheated and have been cheated on. I never thought I would cheat but the relationship was going nowhere and I thought we had come to an understanding that we were free to see other people but I was the only one to act on it. As far as my being cheated on I was so into my schoolwork and job that I let it happen right under my nose. The guy was a real manipulator and because I am such a softy he would play on that. To make matters worse everyone could see through him except me-maybe if I paid more attention but I wasn't that interested.

If you sincerely believed that you were under the impression that you could see others (open relationship), that isn't really cheating. Maybe a gross misunderstanding, but I don't think it's cheating
 

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