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metalkitty

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too powerful of an orgasm? It sounds like a dumb question so I'll give a little tmi for a second. I've never had an orgasm before and the main reason is because I fight it at the last minute. It just feels too intense, like way too intense (hard to explain) and I get an urge to pee usually and start almost convulsing which leads me to believe I'm capable of female ejaculation.
Since if you read up on female ejaculation, it feels like you need to urinate when it's about to happen. But I'm afraid I might have sexual incontinence, I kinda doubt it but it's possible I believe. Anyway, I've told a couple people about it and they just say I'm 'blessed' with powerful orgasms, but I don't want to pass out or stop breathing because of it. It's kinda scary to me. So does anyone know anything about female ejaculation or the symptoms I'm having or should I ask a doctor?
 

BeautyPsycho

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Ohh don't worry... you will not pass out or stop breathing, although it does feel like it...
Female ejaculation is a wonderful thing! I LOVE IT!!!
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and your boyfriend will too... Just relax and enjoy, you'll be sorry you didn't do it before
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alexisdeadly

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I love ejaculating. It is seriously such an amazing feeling! Don't be afraid to just let go. As the poster above me said, your boyfriend will love it!
 

CantAffordMAC

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Whenever I have an orgasm it feels like I have to pee too, so I kind of hold back but I'm still able to have a good orgasm. I need someone to train me how to let go enough so that I can ejaculate.

You lucky bitches. lol
 

SingFrAbsoltion

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^drink beforehand haha that's what helped me

I always used to fight it too and then one time I just let go and whoa

I was so surprised that I could do that and my bf thinks its hot
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NutMeg

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I`d say let go and try it. I`m pretty sure it`s not going to permanently harm you
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, and if you don`t like it then you don`t have to do it again.
 

metalkitty

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Thanks, ladies. I just get paranoid sometimes about the most random things, like getting brain aneurysms from chronic tension headaches! Lol!
 

wolfsong

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Originally Posted by metalkitty
too powerful of an orgasm? It sounds like a dumb question so I'll give a little tmi for a second. I've never had an orgasm before and the main reason is because I fight it at the last minute. It just feels too intense, like way too intense (hard to explain) and I get an urge to pee usually and start almost convulsing which leads me to believe I'm capable of female ejaculation.
Since if you read up on female ejaculation, it feels like you need to urinate when it's about to happen. But I'm afraid I might have sexual incontinence, I kinda doubt it but it's possible I believe. Anyway, I've told a couple people about it and they just say I'm 'blessed' with powerful orgasms, but I don't want to pass out or stop breathing because of it. It's kinda scary to me. So does anyone know anything about female ejaculation or the symptoms I'm having or should I ask a doctor?


Try it in the shower - it won't matter either way
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ratmist

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Throw towels down before you get busy. Then you don't worry about any bodily fluids. As for passing out, I've never done that, and I have very strong orgasms. I usually go straight to sleep afterwards though. Do you get stars behind your eyes (i.e., any of the symptoms of oxygen deprivation)? When I'm having an orgasm, I have complete trust in my husband to make sure I'm okay. I really don't like feeling vulnerable, and there's nothing that makes me feel more vulnerable than being in the thrall of a powerful orgasm brought about in part by someone I love and need. I trust him not to let anything bad happen to me in those vulnerable moments. I don't know if you could have that level of trust in your partner or not, but it helps.

As far as sexual incontinency is concerned, you could go see your doctor, who could then refer you to a specialist. But imho, it *is* a tiny bit of a waste of time if you've never actually experienced the incontinency, and are just very afraid of it happening. If I was you, I'd get busy with myself, in a shower or on a lot of towels, in private, without my partner. That would remove most or all of the embarassment factor with the partner, and give me a chance to get to know my own body better.
 

makeup_wh0re

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For 3 years I would stop before I would orgasm b/c it felt like I would stop breathing. Well one night I was drunk and I just did it anyways. My boyfriend tells me that I sound like a choo choo train, but I really don't care anymore lol. I still hold my breath when I do it, but yea. You will be ok.
 

BeautyPsycho

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why would the bf love it? :S:S

Because it's unusual, hot, sexy.. they know it's because of them or because of what they do... And if they love you, they love when you are feeling good...


Yeah, towel is a good idea.
 

CantAffordMAC

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you guys give some good tips. I'm going to ask for more advice lol.

I don't believe that I can orgasm at all from regular sex. It feels good but my g-spot isnt being touched and he/I could play with my clit during sex but its hard to multi-task and have sex and do that at the same time. So after sex my boyfriend fingers me and we use a vibrator on my clit...and I've been orgasming from that. I make sure I use the bathroom beforehand, because thats what everyone always says--to make sure you use the bathroom so you know that you don't have to pee.

So when I feel like I'm going to pee/orgasm I usually push out (as if I were going to the bathroom) and thats how I can orgasm. Are you supposed to hold in or push out? And then after I feel like I'm coming, he is still fingering me and I feel like I didn't fully orgasm or like I can do it again right after that but I'm so sensitive that I just tell him to stop. Shouls he keep going and maybe I'll *ejaculate*?
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Simply Elegant

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I don't think it matters whether you push in or hold out. Whatever feels better.

Some girls just can't ejaculate and sometimes you just need to experiment a bit more to do it.

If he keeps going and it feels a bit sensitive, ask him to touch the sides of your clit which is less sensitive or another area and if he keeps going and doing what you like then you'll have multiple orgasms whether you ejaculate or not. And it's way easier to have your second, third etc than your first because you're already aroused.
 

BeautyPsycho

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Yup! And also... you said that you can't do it during regular sex, if I may suggest different poses? Maybe put a pillow under your butt (if you're doing it missionary) or if you're on top, don't go up-down but rather forward-backwards (lol this sounds funny, I hope you understand what I mean).. And yeah, during this pose when I feel like I'm gonna ejaculate I have to stop (he has to pull it out) because it just doesn't wanna go if his penis is still in there
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hm what else?

Yeah, you can always stimulate your clit. It doesn't have to be him
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ratmist

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Ladies, I know you may be worried about sexual incontinency, but urinating before sex isn't always a great idea. If you've ever had a urinary tract infection (UTI) or suffer from yeast infections (thrush), one of the reasons cited is that normal bacteria gets moved around during sex and ends up travelling down the urethra as a result. The easiest way to prevent that is to urinate after sex.
 

ratmist

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Originally Posted by CantAffordMAC
I don't believe that I can orgasm at all from regular sex. It feels good but my g-spot isnt being touched and he/I could play with my clit during sex but its hard to multi-task and have sex and do that at the same time. So after sex my boyfriend fingers me and we use a vibrator on my clit...and I've been orgasming from that. I make sure I use the bathroom beforehand, because thats what everyone always says--to make sure you use the bathroom so you know that you don't have to pee.

I'm a bit like you, in that I need stimulation on my clit before I can orgasm. It is not possible for me to orgasm with vaginal penetration alone. On the other hand, providing I have enough stimulation on my clit, movement on my g-spot will give me the hardest orgasm. Stimulation of both = best for me. It's just about finding a position that lets both happen without too much contortion or trouble.
 

CantAffordMAC

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Originally Posted by ratmist
Ladies, I know you may be worried about sexual incontinency, but urinating before sex isn't always a great idea. If you've ever had a urinary tract infection (UTI) or suffer from yeast infections (thrush), one of the reasons cited is that normal bacteria gets moved around during sex and ends up travelling down the urethra as a result. The easiest way to prevent that is to urinate after sex.

If I didn't pee before sex I would never orgasm. Ever. Lately I've been trying to pee like 30 minutes before sex but I don't know if that'll help. I seriously just wouldn't orgasm if I didn't pee before sex.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ratmist
I'm a bit like you, in that I need stimulation on my clit before I can orgasm. It is not possible for me to orgasm with vaginal penetration alone. On the other hand, providing I have enough stimulation on my clit, movement on my g-spot will give me the hardest orgasm. Stimulation of both = best for me. It's just about finding a position that lets both happen without too much contortion or trouble.

well when my boyfriend fingers me I use my vibrator on my clit at the same time. that is the only way I orgasm. Thats what we always do. We tried it before when he was only fingering me/touching my gspot and no vibrator and it didn't work.

I will try the pillow under the butt thing but I don't think it'll work. We've tried a LOT of positions and I just never even feel him touching my gspot at all. but as soon as he puts his fingers inside of me he touches my gspot. Immediately
 

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