eastsidesunset
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My boyfriend- bless his heart- has always been known to overreact. I've known this for years, and I've put up with more than I probably should have.
But today was different. He's been having problems at work, and has been looking for a new job for a while. He applied for one within the company he works for currently (at a different store), and told his assistant manager about it. She told him she would put in a good word for him. Well, the next day (today) he was late to work, but called in and explained. Everything was fine for a few hours and then he got sent home, being told he was now under review. He called me a quarter to one and just went off, talking sh-t about minorities *and hey, I'm one*, saying he was going to beat everyone up, threatening everyone at work, and then turned on me. He was yelling so much I hung up, but he kept calling. He called me a bitch, I hung up. He calls back and says "I'm sorry, I lost my temper, but you're a *^%#( bitch", I hang up again. 10 calls in less than 15 minutes! I just ignored them or hung up on him, thinking he would get the message.
Then he emails me. And IM's me. Just a string of curses and anger. I ignored it for the most part, and was sure not to say anything that might really set him off (at this point, I was getting scared he might actually come to my house). He calls later, same yelling thing. I told him I could not talk to him like that, and hung up. I tried to explain to him that his behavior was not acceptable, and that he shouldn't be treating me like that, but he basically said he had every right to. Few hours pass, another phone call, I tell him I won't talk to him and hang up. Fast forward-- He calls my cell (which was in another room) nine times in eight minutes and leaves four voicemails, each one angrier than the next. Then he calls my house phone and pulls the "Why didn't you pick up" crap (at this point I didn't know he'd called my cell so many times). I told him I wasn't feeling well and was making dinner, I couldn't talk. He launches into his "you have no job you sleep all day you're worthless" speech for what seems like the 100th time in less than nine hours. He yells for a few minutes while I said nothing, and I just hung up.
At this point I'm terrified this is going to go on all night. He just won't stop calling, he won't leave me alone. So far today I've been told I'm a bitch and a c*nt, that I cheat on him, and I'll never get a job unless I have sex with someone, I'm too stupid to exist, and god knows what else, and I do not want to see or speak to him again. My stepdad is a detective with the PD here, and I'm seriously giving thought to calling him. I've already told my father (who I live with) that I will not take a call from him,that he's just to hang up. I just don't know what to do.
Sorry for the novel, just needed to vent big time.
But today was different. He's been having problems at work, and has been looking for a new job for a while. He applied for one within the company he works for currently (at a different store), and told his assistant manager about it. She told him she would put in a good word for him. Well, the next day (today) he was late to work, but called in and explained. Everything was fine for a few hours and then he got sent home, being told he was now under review. He called me a quarter to one and just went off, talking sh-t about minorities *and hey, I'm one*, saying he was going to beat everyone up, threatening everyone at work, and then turned on me. He was yelling so much I hung up, but he kept calling. He called me a bitch, I hung up. He calls back and says "I'm sorry, I lost my temper, but you're a *^%#( bitch", I hang up again. 10 calls in less than 15 minutes! I just ignored them or hung up on him, thinking he would get the message.
Then he emails me. And IM's me. Just a string of curses and anger. I ignored it for the most part, and was sure not to say anything that might really set him off (at this point, I was getting scared he might actually come to my house). He calls later, same yelling thing. I told him I could not talk to him like that, and hung up. I tried to explain to him that his behavior was not acceptable, and that he shouldn't be treating me like that, but he basically said he had every right to. Few hours pass, another phone call, I tell him I won't talk to him and hang up. Fast forward-- He calls my cell (which was in another room) nine times in eight minutes and leaves four voicemails, each one angrier than the next. Then he calls my house phone and pulls the "Why didn't you pick up" crap (at this point I didn't know he'd called my cell so many times). I told him I wasn't feeling well and was making dinner, I couldn't talk. He launches into his "you have no job you sleep all day you're worthless" speech for what seems like the 100th time in less than nine hours. He yells for a few minutes while I said nothing, and I just hung up.
At this point I'm terrified this is going to go on all night. He just won't stop calling, he won't leave me alone. So far today I've been told I'm a bitch and a c*nt, that I cheat on him, and I'll never get a job unless I have sex with someone, I'm too stupid to exist, and god knows what else, and I do not want to see or speak to him again. My stepdad is a detective with the PD here, and I'm seriously giving thought to calling him. I've already told my father (who I live with) that I will not take a call from him,that he's just to hang up. I just don't know what to do.
Sorry for the novel, just needed to vent big time.
