kariii
Well-known member
I don't even know where to begin.. but I will try to make this short..
So last year, I chose to move to San Francisco from Santa Cruz where my mom and my sister live (mainly because they both smoke cigs indoors and I was sick every constant second of lung infections/non - stop coughing.. plus the smell UGH). So I moved here because it had a "Private entrance" with utilities included in rent for decent amount (especially for SF) but then I found this is an in-law and it's pretty much illegal because it's like part of a garage. then the first problem I had, was the internet he claimed was included never worked in my room so I had to get my own so I'm paying 45 dollars extra a month because I had to get a phone line, too. Then about 3 months ago, he started requesting extra for electricity ( either $40 or 60) because the bill went over but HELLO it's fucking winter, and everyone is using their heaters and I'm barely home at all, all I do is sleep here.
My 2nd problem is ever since I've lived here, I've been itching like crazy.. my boyfriend was even itching when he came here and stayed with me it was so bad I thought I had bed bugs, and spent like $300 in Doctor's visits to get itching medicine/ clean my bed and it still never went away (I'm assuming because I don't get enough light here and there is invisible mold or something, that's my conclusion because I can't find a single bug or anything).
my 3rd problem is he constantly emails me about every single thing, like seperating the garbage (I dont have any garbage hardly because I am HARDLY home), making sure the garage door is closed, because my friend left my house at 2 am and it woke his mother (they live upstairs BTW), once bcause I left the light on.. and it just goes on, it's worse than it was living with my laid back mom.
BUT WHAT THE ICING ON THE CAKE WAS, this morning I woke up YES in my birthday suit because I heard bubblewrap (that was on my floor) popping and I opened my eyes and there was a man in the middle of my room saying he was looking at "the windows". I am so heated I called my fiance crying. I am not sure if there is anything I can do besides moving out, but I'm waiting for a position for my job so I can transfer to Las Vegas so I can move with my fiance. I have been living here since June last year. I can't deal with it anymore.
Do you girls know if I can report this living situation anywhere? Or how I can find out if it's illegal for me to live here, anyway I can get my rent back? or anything.. I can do? Thank you so much in advance.
I hardly talk about my feelings but I just cant take this anymore, I have finally broke down and realized that this is unacceptable. Sorry for the horrible grammar, Im just letting my heart out.
So last year, I chose to move to San Francisco from Santa Cruz where my mom and my sister live (mainly because they both smoke cigs indoors and I was sick every constant second of lung infections/non - stop coughing.. plus the smell UGH). So I moved here because it had a "Private entrance" with utilities included in rent for decent amount (especially for SF) but then I found this is an in-law and it's pretty much illegal because it's like part of a garage. then the first problem I had, was the internet he claimed was included never worked in my room so I had to get my own so I'm paying 45 dollars extra a month because I had to get a phone line, too. Then about 3 months ago, he started requesting extra for electricity ( either $40 or 60) because the bill went over but HELLO it's fucking winter, and everyone is using their heaters and I'm barely home at all, all I do is sleep here.
My 2nd problem is ever since I've lived here, I've been itching like crazy.. my boyfriend was even itching when he came here and stayed with me it was so bad I thought I had bed bugs, and spent like $300 in Doctor's visits to get itching medicine/ clean my bed and it still never went away (I'm assuming because I don't get enough light here and there is invisible mold or something, that's my conclusion because I can't find a single bug or anything).
my 3rd problem is he constantly emails me about every single thing, like seperating the garbage (I dont have any garbage hardly because I am HARDLY home), making sure the garage door is closed, because my friend left my house at 2 am and it woke his mother (they live upstairs BTW), once bcause I left the light on.. and it just goes on, it's worse than it was living with my laid back mom.
BUT WHAT THE ICING ON THE CAKE WAS, this morning I woke up YES in my birthday suit because I heard bubblewrap (that was on my floor) popping and I opened my eyes and there was a man in the middle of my room saying he was looking at "the windows". I am so heated I called my fiance crying. I am not sure if there is anything I can do besides moving out, but I'm waiting for a position for my job so I can transfer to Las Vegas so I can move with my fiance. I have been living here since June last year. I can't deal with it anymore.
Do you girls know if I can report this living situation anywhere? Or how I can find out if it's illegal for me to live here, anyway I can get my rent back? or anything.. I can do? Thank you so much in advance.
I hardly talk about my feelings but I just cant take this anymore, I have finally broke down and realized that this is unacceptable. Sorry for the horrible grammar, Im just letting my heart out.