WOC--How do you use/wear NARS Goldmember?

[cocodivatime]

So I've bought this color and now i don't know how to use it. I tried to put it on my cheeks first as a blush and it didnt show up. So i tried it as a highlighter on the top of my cheeks and i can still barely see it

maybe its my skin color. I am a Bare Escentuals Dark and MAC NC44.

I need some suggestions on maybe what to pair it with or other ways to use it. I'm not super excited about it right now. Help. LOL

 

[elektra513]

I've never tried this particular shade before, but Nars cream blush (and most of his line) is pretty sheer and very buildable. Did you try to layer it? What are you using to apply it?

I have Gueule de Nuit, and I love it. It's a natural subtle flush. I'm around NC45. I use the 187 to apply.