If Akon ever did that to me (and I'm of age)- I'd be pissed. But I wouldn't be at an Akon show and definitely wouldn't be put on stage for anything.
That's disgraceful that the parents of that girl let her go out like that.
Did Akon molest this girl? It's hard to tell from the video whether or not she was into it (if she protested about being thrown around like that, Akon should have his ass served), but the photos make it look like she was having a great time.
This is probably the first time I'd side with Akon. He had no way of knowing the girl's age. She doesn't look 14, the club was 18+, and at least in the pics, she's into it. This isn't R. Kelly. It was a dumb mistake caused by a dumb joke.