user46
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My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year and 3 months already. It's been going downhill since about 5 months after we got together, but I mean I love him. He loves me ... or so I thought.
I've done things for this man that NO one else in his life would. His mom is not exactly the epitome of a good mom, his sister is a bitch, and there's no one in his life that's helping him .. until I came along. I helped him get his license, a good job, and just his whole shit together.
We fight ALL the time. It's like when the relationship first started, he didn't want to go be with his friends or anything, just me. It was about me all day. Now he's with his friends ALL the time. We barely talk unless we're arguing. I'm telling him that he needs to change. He says I complain to much. What got me to writing this post is that he said "i'm gonna try one more time but if you complain about something else then fuck it". Um.. come again? I mean call me crazy, but if I complain, if you love me then it shouldn't matter. If you stop trying, doesn't that mean you'll leave me? Because I for damn sure don't want a man that isn't gonna try for me, regardless of anything.
It's clear that we need to break it off, but I don't know what to do. I mean I break up with him, but it's like no, i NEED to talk to him. Like I have no friends, no cousins my age to talk to, no family. My mom told me to just go ahead and do it.. but idk. I mean I have NO ONE. But I guess I gotta do what I gotta do?
I've done things for this man that NO one else in his life would. His mom is not exactly the epitome of a good mom, his sister is a bitch, and there's no one in his life that's helping him .. until I came along. I helped him get his license, a good job, and just his whole shit together.
We fight ALL the time. It's like when the relationship first started, he didn't want to go be with his friends or anything, just me. It was about me all day. Now he's with his friends ALL the time. We barely talk unless we're arguing. I'm telling him that he needs to change. He says I complain to much. What got me to writing this post is that he said "i'm gonna try one more time but if you complain about something else then fuck it". Um.. come again? I mean call me crazy, but if I complain, if you love me then it shouldn't matter. If you stop trying, doesn't that mean you'll leave me? Because I for damn sure don't want a man that isn't gonna try for me, regardless of anything.
It's clear that we need to break it off, but I don't know what to do. I mean I break up with him, but it's like no, i NEED to talk to him. Like I have no friends, no cousins my age to talk to, no family. My mom told me to just go ahead and do it.. but idk. I mean I have NO ONE. But I guess I gotta do what I gotta do?