I would go with something in the yellow/orange/gold family, some possibilities are Amber Lights, but you could do a matte look using Chrome Yellow. I would try to keep the eyes bright and dramatic so your dress doesn't overpower your face. Some black liquid liner and fake lashes would be a nice contrast with a yellow/gold lid.
For the lips, I would stick to a nude or light pink, and easy on the colour for the cheeks as well.
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