I had the same problem. I finally got it though. Use a soft wash of pink color on your eyes with those lips. It worked out really nice for me. I used yogurt, pink venus (or romping from too dolly quad with a light hand), and dazzlelight. HTH!
Originally Posted by HerGreyness I wear this color with Apres Ski and a wash of very light grey on lids - carbon in corners well smudges and soft pink blush
Agreed. I would go with a grey or taupe on the eye. Try Knight Divine, Moth Brown, Smoke & Diamonds, Print, Scene, etc.