xStarryEyedX
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Thoughts and opinions por favor....
Okay so. My boyfriend and I have been together about 3 and a half months. He's pretty much amazing. I (obviously) really want to impress his parents, they're different than the type of people I'm used to being around. I'm used to people who are very outgoing etc... His parents are very, I don't know... It feels like it took a lot to make them like me. Anyway, his younger brother's girlfriend (him and her are 19, my boyfriend and I are 23) is talking shit to them about me.
It was his youngest brother's grad. party on Saturday... Jason and I were sitting at a table talking with his Aunt/Uncle.. Then all the other younger kids (17-19) sat by us and the aunt/uncle left. They were talking about music, and I guess stuff normal 17 to 19 year olds talk about.. So I said something to Jason about how I felt old and I wasn't used to hanging out with a younger crowd as a joke.... Apparently she went around telling his entire family that I'm a snob and that I said they're not my type of people etc....
And apparently his father is believing it... Despite the fact that on multiple occasions Jason has told me that he doesn't approve of her dating his son etc.... His mother, once she heard my side of the story, was basically like "Oh, okay well now it makes sense this is stupid"...
I told Jason I'm expecting an apology, but I want her to go to his parents and clear up what was actually said and tell them that she was being dramatic. Don't try to make me look bad in front of his parents dude, I don't deal with this shit....
So, I don't care about her opinion of me- but what do I do about the family? Because now I just feel awkward.
I typed this really fast, I know it probably doesn't even make sense.. I just needed to get it out. I've never had anything like this happen. I've been nothing but nice to her ( I offered here a whole shitload of my clothes from Abercrombie because they don't fit me anymore and have tried to make chit chat with her)... She does come accross as QUITE trashy, but I've never said that or done anything to make her pull this shit. Help?
Okay so. My boyfriend and I have been together about 3 and a half months. He's pretty much amazing. I (obviously) really want to impress his parents, they're different than the type of people I'm used to being around. I'm used to people who are very outgoing etc... His parents are very, I don't know... It feels like it took a lot to make them like me. Anyway, his younger brother's girlfriend (him and her are 19, my boyfriend and I are 23) is talking shit to them about me.
It was his youngest brother's grad. party on Saturday... Jason and I were sitting at a table talking with his Aunt/Uncle.. Then all the other younger kids (17-19) sat by us and the aunt/uncle left. They were talking about music, and I guess stuff normal 17 to 19 year olds talk about.. So I said something to Jason about how I felt old and I wasn't used to hanging out with a younger crowd as a joke.... Apparently she went around telling his entire family that I'm a snob and that I said they're not my type of people etc....
And apparently his father is believing it... Despite the fact that on multiple occasions Jason has told me that he doesn't approve of her dating his son etc.... His mother, once she heard my side of the story, was basically like "Oh, okay well now it makes sense this is stupid"...
I told Jason I'm expecting an apology, but I want her to go to his parents and clear up what was actually said and tell them that she was being dramatic. Don't try to make me look bad in front of his parents dude, I don't deal with this shit....
So, I don't care about her opinion of me- but what do I do about the family? Because now I just feel awkward.
I typed this really fast, I know it probably doesn't even make sense.. I just needed to get it out. I've never had anything like this happen. I've been nothing but nice to her ( I offered here a whole shitload of my clothes from Abercrombie because they don't fit me anymore and have tried to make chit chat with her)... She does come accross as QUITE trashy, but I've never said that or done anything to make her pull this shit. Help?