I have big pores as well.
This is what I do:
I stay away from anything shimery on my face. ex: shimmery bronzers & blushes.
I get glycolic peels 1x a month, exfoliate 2x a week, I always make sure my face is clean b4 I goto bed & use a good moisterizer.
After washing your face in the am, you may want to use cold water after cleansing. I also use BE mineral vail as a powder w/ some fix + over & pat w/ a brush
I heard from many dermatologists & estiticians there is nothing you can do about big pores.