SonRisa
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I couldn't agree more. I can't believe I'm reading half of this. "Women look fake and made up" etc. "When you dress like a hoe I'll treat you like a hoe. . ." So I'm just asking but if a women is dressed in a mini skirt and halter top and she gets raped, do you think she was "asking for it"?!? I too am appauled at the anti-women sentiment coming across in these statements. I understand we were all raised differently with different values etc, but jesus christ, I could have sworn this was 2006! And tell me, how does a hoe dress exactly? Do you realize that strippers wear what they do because it's a costume for their job? Yes, they chose that job. Some may have the job oly to make money, others may truly enjoy the empowerment they feel. Many of you may not understand this but I remember reading a paper in college about this in one of my human sexuality classes. It was all about embracing being a woman and having the power to turn a man on. Make him want something he can't have.
Maybe I'm biased because I'm bisexual, but I've never had a problem with any boyfriend of mine looking at porn, going to strip clubs or any of that. I don't care if he's thinking about a stripper while we have sex. It's a fantasy. Which is healthy. I'll watch porn with him and LOVE going to strip clubs. I also however, am very secure in my relationship(s) (past and present). If I wasn't, I wouldn't be in them. Because without trust, you have nothing. I could be wrong, but I'm getting the feeling that a lot of these comments are coming from people who are not secure with themselves (not even their relationship), but themselves. If you can honestly say that women disgust you, do you love yourself? How could you and make a statement like that? Women are sexy, period. As a gender we just have more sex appeal than any male ever will. It's in our very essence.
I really just don't see the big deal. A healthy sexual appetite is good for the body, mind and soul and if indulging in fantasies is part of that, who are you to judge and say it's wrong?!
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Originally Posted by Chelly bottem line - lighten up - its really not such a big deal |
I couldn't agree more. I can't believe I'm reading half of this. "Women look fake and made up" etc. "When you dress like a hoe I'll treat you like a hoe. . ." So I'm just asking but if a women is dressed in a mini skirt and halter top and she gets raped, do you think she was "asking for it"?!? I too am appauled at the anti-women sentiment coming across in these statements. I understand we were all raised differently with different values etc, but jesus christ, I could have sworn this was 2006! And tell me, how does a hoe dress exactly? Do you realize that strippers wear what they do because it's a costume for their job? Yes, they chose that job. Some may have the job oly to make money, others may truly enjoy the empowerment they feel. Many of you may not understand this but I remember reading a paper in college about this in one of my human sexuality classes. It was all about embracing being a woman and having the power to turn a man on. Make him want something he can't have.
Maybe I'm biased because I'm bisexual, but I've never had a problem with any boyfriend of mine looking at porn, going to strip clubs or any of that. I don't care if he's thinking about a stripper while we have sex. It's a fantasy. Which is healthy. I'll watch porn with him and LOVE going to strip clubs. I also however, am very secure in my relationship(s) (past and present). If I wasn't, I wouldn't be in them. Because without trust, you have nothing. I could be wrong, but I'm getting the feeling that a lot of these comments are coming from people who are not secure with themselves (not even their relationship), but themselves. If you can honestly say that women disgust you, do you love yourself? How could you and make a statement like that? Women are sexy, period. As a gender we just have more sex appeal than any male ever will. It's in our very essence.
I really just don't see the big deal. A healthy sexual appetite is good for the body, mind and soul and if indulging in fantasies is part of that, who are you to judge and say it's wrong?!
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Originally Posted by lovemichelle Most women look fake and made-up to me. Men are pure and thats what I love about them. Plus, women are just stank in my opinion. When you dress like a hoe thats how I will treat you . . .we don't need that kind of "fun" because we have each other for those kinds of things. Some people find it all cute or whatever, but that will never be me. I was never a club goer and neither was he. |