MiCHiE
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OMG....I've tried a couple times to start this and never finished, but really.....have you ever been involved with someone who just didn't get that they're not wanted?
I'll try to give you the trunicated version of this and hopefully I can gather some insight, as well.
This guy lives next door with his brother and brother's GF. Halloween night, I got home and he strikes up a conversation with me. Not trying to be a beyotch, I play along. Strike 1. He tells me that he's 33 (I searched, he's 34) living with his little brother until he gets on his feet. So, then he asks me if I would call him if he gave me his number. Reluctantly, after a couple excuses, I take his phone number thinking, "I'll just call and let him down easy.....". Dumbest move I've made since using Too Faced First Base all over my lid. He asked me to call him at about 8.
I went inside, washed my hair and sat under the dryer. Not long after that, the doorbell rang. I didn't have my porch light on for Trick-or-Treaters, so......you guessed it. He had come over because it was after 8 and I hadn't called. Now, I'm standing in the doorway looking at him like
"I'm drying my hair.". Now, I'm thinking, "He's got to go and he will not like this call...", as I'm hellbent on telling him to "Fuck off".
I finally did call him and made mistake #2. I dialed directly instead of using my proxy phone #. Creepy as hell....this dude is telling me how he had been watching my house, admiring me, was so glad that I called him, made his day.....etc. Again, I'm like
, "Dude, you don't even know me and sound like you need help. That's kinda obsessive." So, he continues on, saying how he would like to get to know me better and take me out and how he could see himself "parking in that driveway".
"Oh, you must have great vision, but I am not looking for a roomate."
At that point, I said I had to go, see you later, goodnight.
Next (Sat.) morning at 8:30, I'm readying myself for work and this ass calls me, "Good Morning!!! How did you sleep?"
"Fine. I'm getting ready for work, though..."
"Oh, call me when you're leaving..."
Whatever......
On Sunday, I finally told him in what I thought was plain English, "I'm not interested in you. I don't want to go out with you. You don't have to keep calling me."
After I said that, he asked me if I would meet his kids since he had them for the weekend.
He's a real winner.
That was back in Oct./Nov. and he still calls me every week or so. I just send the calls to voicemail. WTF? Luckily, he has not knocked on my door again or I would be on the next installment of Snapped. I have never been in a situation like this. I don't feel like I'm in a threatening situation at all. I'm annoyed at his stupidity more than anything. My bestie thinks I should invite my ex over, but if he ever got wind about this guy, it would get ugly.
I thought women did things like this to men. WTH?
I'll try to give you the trunicated version of this and hopefully I can gather some insight, as well.
This guy lives next door with his brother and brother's GF. Halloween night, I got home and he strikes up a conversation with me. Not trying to be a beyotch, I play along. Strike 1. He tells me that he's 33 (I searched, he's 34) living with his little brother until he gets on his feet. So, then he asks me if I would call him if he gave me his number. Reluctantly, after a couple excuses, I take his phone number thinking, "I'll just call and let him down easy.....". Dumbest move I've made since using Too Faced First Base all over my lid. He asked me to call him at about 8.
I went inside, washed my hair and sat under the dryer. Not long after that, the doorbell rang. I didn't have my porch light on for Trick-or-Treaters, so......you guessed it. He had come over because it was after 8 and I hadn't called. Now, I'm standing in the doorway looking at him like
I finally did call him and made mistake #2. I dialed directly instead of using my proxy phone #. Creepy as hell....this dude is telling me how he had been watching my house, admiring me, was so glad that I called him, made his day.....etc. Again, I'm like
"Oh, you must have great vision, but I am not looking for a roomate."
At that point, I said I had to go, see you later, goodnight.
Next (Sat.) morning at 8:30, I'm readying myself for work and this ass calls me, "Good Morning!!! How did you sleep?"
"Fine. I'm getting ready for work, though..."
"Oh, call me when you're leaving..."
Whatever......
On Sunday, I finally told him in what I thought was plain English, "I'm not interested in you. I don't want to go out with you. You don't have to keep calling me."
After I said that, he asked me if I would meet his kids since he had them for the weekend.
He's a real winner.
That was back in Oct./Nov. and he still calls me every week or so. I just send the calls to voicemail. WTF? Luckily, he has not knocked on my door again or I would be on the next installment of Snapped. I have never been in a situation like this. I don't feel like I'm in a threatening situation at all. I'm annoyed at his stupidity more than anything. My bestie thinks I should invite my ex over, but if he ever got wind about this guy, it would get ugly.
I thought women did things like this to men. WTH?
, of course she didn't answer and now he's mad at her because she's "ignoring" him and hurt his feelings...she had already told him long ago that she didn't like him..
