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Originally Posted by Temptasia
I didn't think I'd ever enter a thread like this, but I am glad you girls are here for each other and are sharing your experiences.
My name is Julie and I have been with my bf for 6 solid years. We met through a mutual friend and have been inseperable ever since. We went out for about 5 years before we decided to move in together. It was hard living with someone for the first time and it was pretty tough for at least 3 months. He had an addiction to World of Warcraft and it caused a lot of tension between us. He finally gave it up 6 months ago and things have been healthy and normal. 3 months ago, he quit his job to pursue side projects and work for himself. A few weeks ago, he decided to take up a job working in Alberta (Fort McMurray). He left this morning for his first shift of 10 days straight. He has the opportunity to work with his good friend, use his skills, and get paid really well. The catch is that he is up there for 10 days, and back in Vancouver for 4 days. Then back up there for 10 and so on. I know it's not as difficult as other LDRs where people don't see each other for months...but it's my first experience with this. I don't know how long this will last, but we are aiming for a year.
I am trying to be strong and assure him that he has my full support...eventhough I will struggle at first. I have to keep thinking forward and know that we've got a plan to stick to. We'd like to make it official in 2010 and we are more comfortable than ever to do so.
There are times where I felt we have both taken each other's company for granted and lose perspective and I know this coming year will definitely keep us real and test our love. I don't think there is a better time in my life for this. I know I couldn't have done it years ago, or years later if I have a family to take care of.
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It all will be good! I'm one of those who havent seen my man in real life for months, but I do understand how tougfh it is. You are used to have him around, so I can imagine how it gets to you. I was waiting for my bf for 1 year, but after he came here and left first 2 weeks were so tough!
Its all tough for you now cause it's something new,. what you are not used to. He will start working, and soon you guys will work your very own "schedule", when you talk, call, e-mail, chat, and whatever! And you will be settled in this new enviroment.
You're great for supporting him. Try to do you best, cause imagine, thats tough for him too. And come on, 10 days or even 2 weeks are not THAT much honestly! It will pass soon, you will study, work, hang with family (which is great, but we sometimes have no time for it)? and then *puff* 10 days are over.
Also, you can use webcams! You can make him surprises, write letters, send packs, go make him a surprise and wait for him in hot lingerie at his place see him at his place!
I think thats a great thing that you say that "maybe you were taking each other for granted", maybe this experience and challenge will only be good for your relationship to start enjoyning precious moments together!
It gonna be fine!