my twin sister is engaged to an Iraq vet that just got out last may... basically when he was over there for 8 months, it was very hard at first. But then, she got used to it, as weird as that sounds. She got used to waiting for him, he could call her every once in a while, and believe me its worth it to stick around. Most of the guys over there (probably like 95%) are dumped or cheated on by their gfs. You need to make the desicion whether or not you're in it for the long haul. Its ok if you're not, most girls arent cut out for it because its hard. But for the few its very rewarding. You'll get through it, keep yourself busy. There are a lot of internet support groops, and a lot of reads i can suggest about what to expect when he comes back. Its hard. be strong, its been done before, and you can do it too. Surround yourself with friends, pick up a new hobby, focus on school or work, etc. Thats what she did and now they are engaged and extremely happy. It will seem to go really slowly at first, and then all the sudden it will be over. i hope that helps... i can give you a lot more advice if you need it..