Boasorte
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Ok this may be a long post but bear with me, cuz I'm at my wits end. I'm trying to get my godsister to see the light, without coming across as rude,and "holier than thou"
So my godsister moves to FL (Florida) to live with her mother, mother introduces her to a guy, turns out he's married. She doesn't care though, continues seeing him, and BAM, she's knocked up. This man already has like a million kids ( no lie I think like 7)
So my godsister, who we shall call "Jill" is pregnant, no job, no man, no nothing. So I convince her to go back to college for the fall semester(this was in the summer btw) Jill, decides to pick some random major, that idk wtf she was thinking about. I told her since she doesn't have a job, go for a certificate program, or something that will enable her to get a job right after graduating, then worry about a B.A or B.S in a few months.
So very randomly Jill moves back to NYC, and I'm like "wtf" weren't u going to start school?" She made up a lie about how her mom wanted to leave FL ( Which I came to find out, she left because someone found her out, and knew the father of her baby was married, so she skipped town, since it was a very small community)
Fast forward to present time, I got her enrolled in yet ANOTHER school, when she "gets in a fight with her grandmother" and all of a sudden moves to Maryland, and says "f**k school that's not an option right now I need a job"
But this girl has zero luck getting jobs, so I keep telling her, that her best option is school for now. She always in love with this married man, getting a tattoo of his name and all this nonsense, calling him constantly, etc. She also complains to me about not having enough money when this guy is sending her $400 bi-weekly, and she blows in on things like weed, designer clothes that her baby DOES NOT need(Burberry, Prada ,etc) nor can she afford
I'm tired of her nonsense and I want her to get on the right path, but her mind is fucked up, and she thinks I judge her ( which I don't) so I want to know how exactly can I tell her get her shit together without making it seem like I'm a know it all?
Ok yea this is a long post but please I need HELP
So my godsister moves to FL (Florida) to live with her mother, mother introduces her to a guy, turns out he's married. She doesn't care though, continues seeing him, and BAM, she's knocked up. This man already has like a million kids ( no lie I think like 7)
So my godsister, who we shall call "Jill" is pregnant, no job, no man, no nothing. So I convince her to go back to college for the fall semester(this was in the summer btw) Jill, decides to pick some random major, that idk wtf she was thinking about. I told her since she doesn't have a job, go for a certificate program, or something that will enable her to get a job right after graduating, then worry about a B.A or B.S in a few months.
So very randomly Jill moves back to NYC, and I'm like "wtf" weren't u going to start school?" She made up a lie about how her mom wanted to leave FL ( Which I came to find out, she left because someone found her out, and knew the father of her baby was married, so she skipped town, since it was a very small community)
Fast forward to present time, I got her enrolled in yet ANOTHER school, when she "gets in a fight with her grandmother" and all of a sudden moves to Maryland, and says "f**k school that's not an option right now I need a job"
But this girl has zero luck getting jobs, so I keep telling her, that her best option is school for now. She always in love with this married man, getting a tattoo of his name and all this nonsense, calling him constantly, etc. She also complains to me about not having enough money when this guy is sending her $400 bi-weekly, and she blows in on things like weed, designer clothes that her baby DOES NOT need(Burberry, Prada ,etc) nor can she afford
I'm tired of her nonsense and I want her to get on the right path, but her mind is fucked up, and she thinks I judge her ( which I don't) so I want to know how exactly can I tell her get her shit together without making it seem like I'm a know it all?
Ok yea this is a long post but please I need HELP