I have exactly the same kind of skin as yours... after trying out a million different products I finally have the perfect skin routine down for my skin..
AM:
Laura Mercier Gel cleanser
Laura Mercier Oil Free Daily moisturizer SPF 15
PM:
Laura Mercier Gel cleanser
Clinique Superdefense moisturizer (it's for dry skin, but it's thick so I use it at night, super moisturizing)
Origins Spot Remover on any blemishes..
I totally recommend the Laura Mercier Oil Free Moisturizer, i love it! That was the first product I got from LM & it was so good I had to try the other stuff. I'm getting the night cream & eyecream from LM pretty soon too.
I think for skin, the simpler the better.
Also make sure to exfoliate 1-2x a week (i use Clinique 7day scrub or Laura Mercier Face Polish)