Quick Questionaire. (Kinds of men)

[CandiGirl21]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?

 

[nzgal]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
I think it depends on your own personality type, i.e. I'm not shy, but I'm not always one to make the first move in conversations etc. I think I prefer men that are a bit more forward and less shy, but that's bc it just matches better with my personality.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
Yes.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
definitely!

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
Of course they can grow up to be men! Especially if they are taught to RESPECT women, and not just see them as providers of food & clean laundry.

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
Uh, no. The opposite.

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
Modern with a sprinkling of traditional

*Currently happily married*

 

[AngelBunny]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
-- Shy I can handle ... if he says he is shy and really he is just quiet and morose, no thanks!

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
-- Depends .... are they hot? J/K ... sure ... unless I am plastered and being a moron.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
-- No ... I like muscles and low maintenance ... if it takes him longer to primp than me we have a problem. I am sooooo not the metrosexual loving type.

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
-- Yes ... they will grow up to be men that want YOU to be their mama! Not even going to approach the breast milk comment ... eeeewww!

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
-- I speak from experience (hubby had three kids prior to me with two different women ... now we have two more) ... it is actually quite the opposite. Made him more endearing, but certainly not more stable.

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
-- I would say more modern ... but that is mainly because I have a history of being the aggressor.

Cool survey!

 

[TISH1124]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?

As long as they open up when we are together it doesn't bother me...It's cute...mysterious

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
Only if they are my type..and I am giving them the eye that it is okay to approach me ... If I'm busy ...I don't like to be bothered..If I am spending time with my son..please respect that and don't interfere...with "Hey Boo, you got a minute"
#1 My name is not BOO and your minute is used up since I had to make you aware of that fact! I hate Thug type men period! I like a rough neck at times...But not a Thug!

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?

Never went for the pretty boy persay...I was all about the personality, smile and overall self esteem and appearance. My weakness is smooth skin, great teeth, height, build and hella smell good


4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?

Never had a Momma boys...I know my brother is one, along with being a pretty boy... and I don't want one of him ever!

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?

I have dated men that had kids who were piss poor fathers and didn't have two nickels to rub together and piss poor ambition ...and my current dh is the best father in the world and he is 100% stable mentally and financially...Every thing he does is with his wife and kids in mind.


*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?

Neither..I am both...If I want it I go get it...Meaning..I might make the first move if the circumstances warrant it...
But I do like to have doors opened and be treated like a lady...I may buy dinner if I want to...But I don't want to feel like I have to.

 

[Simply Elegant]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
I don't really go for shy guys. I do prefer quiet guys though. Definitely a difference between shy and quiet.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
Maybe. Depends on the guy and his approach. I don't really look though. They just seem to pop up and make the first move.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
Yes. I prefer a pretty boy because I like someone that will take care of himself well.

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
They can as long as they don't want me to be their replacement mother. I won't do that. As long as he's raised right, there's not a problem if he's a bit attached to his mom. It's nice because it shows he cares for her and knows how to treat a woman respectfully.

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
Possibly or someone who could have been a bit more careful maybe too. I'm only 21 and not wanting to date someone with kids.

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
Modern. I want to pay for my own portion of a date but don't mind the occasional door being opened for me. I like to be picked up but I don't mind making the first move. It depends.

 

[Paramnesia]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
I think a shy guy is cute, but i'm extremely shy myself so if anything is to happen i need somebody who can at least approach me first.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
Yes, I'm way too shy to approach guys myself so i kind of need it, or i'll just remain single for forever lol.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
Hmmm thats a tough one, yes in some cases but I personally prefer a guy who is rough around the edges

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
Depends on the person, some guys will strive to out grow the mama boy stereotype whereas other seems to be ignorant to the fact and believe that's the way life should be.

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
Haven't dated a guy with children before.

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
Hell i dunno anymore, been single too long to know what i'm even like in a relationship.

 

[CandiGirl21]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
Shy men to me are a waste of my time. I am an upfront person and I would like for him to say something or even offer to be a friend. Because My attention is taken elsewhere...
2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking? Hell yeah! I love it when men say something or flirt a little bit.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion? Yeah but in a sorta bitch way... LMAO!!!

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk? They can once they find a certain woman that will woo the hell out of em'.

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy? I would NEVER date a man with kids...Wait take that back, I would but if I had my own kids.

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern? Modern. I would love for a real good man to spoil me rotten, but I'd look like a dependent, lonely and possible sexually deprived old woman....The horror!!!!!!!

 

[Beauty Mark]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
It can be frustrating (big lags in conversation, having to start things often), but I think they have a lot of potential. I often find that they are humble, which I like.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
It depends how they do it. Asking me out on a date, yes. Trying to grab my boob, no.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
Yes

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
If they're willing to realize how dependent they are on their mother, sure.

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
No. He has to take care of his kids properly for children to indicate any kind of stability


*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
A combination. I see nothing wrong with making the first move, etc., but I also don't jump in bed immediately (I'm not knocking that for others; that just isn't me) and honestly, do like being complimented and such

 

[iadoremac]

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Originally Posted by CandiGirl21 1)What do you ladies think about shy men? The fact that a guy is shy i think its cute to an extent but still he has to know when to summon his courage 2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking? Yes....wouldnt want them to approach me when I am not single and looking 3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion? Yeah I guess so 4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk? Cant stand em wont date em 5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy? I would not use the fact that he has kids to judge him because you never know *BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?

Traditional with a modern twist....if that makes sense

 

[blindpassion]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
I think they can be sweet, but theres a line, if they are awkward and unable to hold a conversation when out in public due to their shyness, then I am not okay with that.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
Sure.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
I think it depends on the boy.

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
I don't have any personal experience with it but I feel that men like that are raised to be dependent on someone for things they should be taking responsibility for in their own lives. If men have been babied too much, in a relationship, especially as soon as they have moved out from a parents house, they depend on you to fulfill those "responsibilities"

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
Usually it shows me the opposite. But it very much depends on the situation. I personally feel like I would be uncomfortable dating a man with kids, simply due to my age. I am very young.

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
Modern. I don't believe in a lot of the old school ways of looking at relationships.

 

[xxManBeaterxx]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
It depends on the situation and what not. But i have no issues with shy guys, but if he doesnt open up then i couldn't date someone like that.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
Ive been with the same guy for 7 years since i was 16.. sorry cant answer this one :\

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
Yeah sure

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
IF they want to lose their girlfriend or wife, they better learn to say no to their mama. Im sure some grow up to be independent and some will always listen to their mom's.

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
First impressions yeah.

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
Im mainly modern but traditional things like a man opening the door for you and he doing the proposing, i like

 

[chocolategoddes]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
It can be cute, but I don't want to have to drag his true self out of him. He'll need to make some sort of an effort to open up.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
Of course. Why noy? But I think I'm intimidating to guys, so it doesnt happen very often.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
They can be, but I like grungy, rough around the edges, big guys. I don't want to date a guy prettier than me.

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
Hey,I hear breast milk doesnt taste that bad....

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
No. If he's my age (17) and he's got kids, I'm running the opposite direction!

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
I guess traditional....

 

[stacylynne]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
I can handle a guy that's shy but if he can't open up & can't have a conversation, then i'm gone

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking? hell hes, only if he's my type. It does make a woman feel good to get hit on

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
sure

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
uggg no mama boys for me, they go right from their mama's to their wives. I want a partner not an overgown child. I have a tendancy to go for bad boys lol

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
I have dated men that had kids, it doesn't bother me 1 bit

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
I'm a little of both. I like when a man opens the door for me. I feel a man should always pay for the 1st date, but as the relationship progresses, I have no prob. paying but not on the 1st date. no way.
I'm also very independent. A lot of men are intiminated by me. I also need a man that can keep up with me lol

 

[user46]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
My current boyfriend WAS fairly shy. I actually liked that about him. I don't think it's a bad thing.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
No.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
Ummm... yea.

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
Always with the breast milk. My boyfriend is a momma's boy and some shit really pisses me off. But she's nice. He just feels the need to take care of her instead of letting her take care of herself.

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
Umm... idk.
*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
Definitely traditional. I don't believe in double standards, but for the first dates I def. think the man should pay. and ... stuff like that. lol. Thats how it used to be with my man .. but now we split everything down the middle.

 

[ClaireAvril]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
Aggrivating.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
Yes.. all depends on the type of approach and what is said.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
No.. i'm the girl

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
Hmmm.. perhaps.. with the right training. But the odds are low.

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
NOOOOOOOO.. There are so many men out there that boast they have children but aren't taking care of them.

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
Traditional. I believe men should open doors for women, give up their seats for women and elderly persons, bring flowers, etc. Doesn't happen much anymore.

 

[snowflakelashes]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?

Shy guys are okay if they are not too shy. As others have said before I need to be able to converse with him, seeing as I am not the most outgoing person I definately need someone who is willing to give and take. That said I had the HUGEST crush on this guy who seemed to be shy, he talked to his friend, and I made the effort to talk to him and he seemed to talk back, and it was great. I decided I wanted to mingle and I noticed he was quiet... went back.. talked more with him and it was good... mingled with others... saw the same thing... that kind of shy I only have patience for , for a while . If he were to have decided he liked me as more than a friend, my patience would wear thin if he never talked to anyone else because I have had to struggle so hard to break free of my own shyness that it is important for me to keep practicing talking to a variety of people... but he doesn't have to be super out going... just not paralyzed shy.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?

Again yes, but it depends how they approach me. If they have a conversation and treat me with respect, I like it. And even if it isn't it gives me something to complain to my girlfriends about. "Can you believe he just came up to me and asked me if I'd **** him?" lol ... If I were more attractive and it happened all the time maybe it would be annoying btu since its a super rare, practically never occurance, its nice to get attention even once in a while..

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?

I don't really know what a pretty boy is defined as?... someone who is clean cut and does their hair and stuff? They can be... I knew a guy who plucked his eyebrows and dressed nice, but he also worked out like a MOFO and was definately manly...

Depends on the guy really.



4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?

they can but less likely to. I think that more boys need to be raised to be independant. Everyone should know how to cook (at least the basics) do their own laundry, and how to clean a house.

Same for girls, all girls should know how to change a lightbulb, how to reset a breaker or replace a fuse, how to change a tire (this i was NEVER taught, let me tell you how I balled my eyes when a tire went out and had to rely on the kindness of strangers to stop and help me put the spare on... !) and basic use of tools and repairs (ahmmer or remove a nail, basic use of a screwdriver and drill, how to use a saw.. etc.

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?

Not really, doesn't influence it. If he has children and he is obviously involved in their lives and a good father then yes. But if he has children and he makes no effort to be involved in their lives or is just the 'fun' dad. Then no it doesn't improve my image of him...


*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?

I don't date, but if I did I would be more traditional . I was just raised old school. While I'm not exactly waiting for marriage, I am not built emotionally to handle meaningless sexual encounters. I am jealous sometimes of people who can, because I am like "it must be SO much easier when you can just do stuff and not be affected by it long term". But unfortunately my heart and mind are not able to seperate like that.

That said I am "modern" in the sense that I believe in being an independant and smart self sufficient woman. And that while I would love to have a partner in life I won't sacrifice who I am or dumb myself down just to try and make myself into something a man think he wants. I can not FAKE submission, while I am not an agressive person and am pretty passive. I would not be able to subjigate all my desires nad dreams just to make another person happy. I believe in cooperation and mutual respect.

 

[HeavenLeiBlu]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?

Enh, I'm shy enough. I prefer an assertive man. Two wallflowers=no fun.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
Yup

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?


Depends on what's pretty about them, but yeah. Big difference in being a pretty boy and just all out effeminate.


4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?

Hell no. Stay away.

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?

No.


*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?

Hmmm.... I'm really square in the middle. I have some ideas that I'm open to that lots of people find really shocking, but I still have very traditional desires to go along with those.

 

[kimmy]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
not a fan, i like aggressive men.

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
only if they do it with respect.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
no, but they're nice to look at sometimes.

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
mama's boys never grow up.

5)If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
no, i wouldn't date a guy with kids anyway.

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
a little from column a; a little from column b.

 

[aqua_butterfly]

1)What do you ladies think about shy men?
My mom always said "still waters run deep and dirty," and this has always been my experience with shy men. Especially the ones that can't look people in the face. Watch out! lol

2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking?
I'm married now, but I was never a fan of being approached or hit on. It was actually kind of a turn off for me. I guess I like to be the aggressor.

3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion?
No, not IMO.

4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk?
lmao I really don't know.

5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy?
As long as he's good to his kids, sure.

*BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?
When I was dating, modern for sure lol

 

[florabundance]

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Originally Posted by CandiGirl21 1)What do you ladies think about shy men? 2)Do you like men to approach you when you're single and looking? 3)Are pretty boys still masculine in your opinion? 4)Can mama boys grow up to be men or will they still feed off of breast milk? 5) If you dated a man with children, does him having kids make you see him as a stable guy? *BONUS*When it comes to dating, are you more traditional or modern?

1. I love shy men.

2. Yeah sure, why not. Provided they're not aggressive with it. I find that kind of gross.

3. It really depends. I appreciate when someone takes pride in their appearance, but as the great Mya once said (lmao) "I can't stand a man who thinks he looks better than me". I'm a dork.

4. I think you can be both a man and on breast milk. Maybe i'm wrong.

5. It's doubtful i'd date a man with children but if so, then no, i try my best to judge stuff once i've experience it, not before.

*BONUS* I'm both, which can be confusing for the guy, but i'd like to think I have better qualities which make up for all my contradictions