jokers_kick
Well-known member
Okay wow. So basically this guy is completely attached to me. It's partially my fault. I lost my virginity to him a few weeks ago, I can't give you any reason other than the time just felt "right" for me, and I still don't regret it. Anywho, I've only had sex with him once, and actually hung out with him twice. He is constantly trying to talk to me, call me, chat with me...but I just don't like his personality and generally the way he looks/is. I know it sounds harsh, but it's the way it is, and I'm not about to ask him to change everything for me. He's gotten SOOOOO attached, and I just sort of want to cool it. I don't want a relationship with him at all, and the personality issue gets to me when I hang out with him.
So he sends me a message about a week ago saying that he's starting to tell people I'm his girlfriend EVEN THOUGH I told him bluntly before that, that I didn't want a relationship. In his words: "hey both my neighbor and his wife think yur hot and they asked me if u were my girlfriend and i sed yea. i know tht u dont want a relationship, but if ppl ask me if yur my g/f then im gonna say yes. i dont care if u dont call me yur b/f, but if u decide to go out with some other guy, let me know first, but im pretty sure u woodnt do tht without telling me" He totally disregarded my words which pissed me off.
We also were talking a few days ago, and he tells me that having sex with him was a "rookie" decision. That got me REALLY pissed. He was begging me...I mean BEGGING me the first time. I mean, I still don't regret it, but I think I should have acted in a totally different way. It's tearing me up inside because I can't be rude, mean, or blunt to him, I can't just tell him "I don't want to see you anymore." I'm losing sleep over it(its 2:30 in the morning) and I've shed tears, felt sick blah blah. It hurts sooo much because I feel sort of a tie to him because of what happened, but I don't like him in general. I would put myself through emotional and mental torture if I even tried a relationship with him. I never thought I'd be in this situation...but here I am.
So he sends me a message about a week ago saying that he's starting to tell people I'm his girlfriend EVEN THOUGH I told him bluntly before that, that I didn't want a relationship. In his words: "hey both my neighbor and his wife think yur hot and they asked me if u were my girlfriend and i sed yea. i know tht u dont want a relationship, but if ppl ask me if yur my g/f then im gonna say yes. i dont care if u dont call me yur b/f, but if u decide to go out with some other guy, let me know first, but im pretty sure u woodnt do tht without telling me" He totally disregarded my words which pissed me off.
We also were talking a few days ago, and he tells me that having sex with him was a "rookie" decision. That got me REALLY pissed. He was begging me...I mean BEGGING me the first time. I mean, I still don't regret it, but I think I should have acted in a totally different way. It's tearing me up inside because I can't be rude, mean, or blunt to him, I can't just tell him "I don't want to see you anymore." I'm losing sleep over it(its 2:30 in the morning) and I've shed tears, felt sick blah blah. It hurts sooo much because I feel sort of a tie to him because of what happened, but I don't like him in general. I would put myself through emotional and mental torture if I even tried a relationship with him. I never thought I'd be in this situation...but here I am.