Oh, I love to suggest colours!
I am writing some eyeshadows for evening or special occasions, because I suppose it is quite obvious which are the ones for a natural look.
Since you are pale, there's not such difference in your undertones, so I would suggest some colours able to contrast with your hair and to make you eyes being highlighted.
Parfait Amour on the entire eyelid, with Crystal for highlighting and Knight Divine in the outer V. If you want a very special look, add some white in the inner V