So you don't want shiny or metallic, you don't want matte...
Have you tried any of the Shu Uemura e/s? You probably won't like the metallic ones ('ME'), which are my favourite e/s of all time (but they are metallic - not what you're wanting). You would probably like the iridescent or pearl ones (marked 'P' or 'IR').
Shu e/s are soooo blendable, except for the matte ones (M) and the pearl & iridescent ones give a slight shimmer and shine but nothing really over the top like veluxe pearls. I went nuts for these when I took a trip overseas to Asia a while back, as they are no longer available here in Australia.
By the way, MAC veluxe e/s are supposed to be matte - I quite like them but some complain that they are chalky.