sitasati
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Right now, I just want to dig a hole and hide in there for the rest of my life. I'm really mentally and emotionally tired. I feel very ugly and fat. I feel like I've not accomplished anything in life and I just feel very angry at myself right now. I want to lose weight so badly but I keep giving up after every so called "diet" or attempt to eat healthy. I feel like I shouldn't even be spending money buying makeup because I'm too ugly to wear it. Makeup is only for pretty girls, not me.
I have this image of this girl who is curvy yet in shape ..who wears sexy yet sophisticated clothes but that girl is not me. I want to be her. I want to feel like her. I know a lot of men don't prefer to be with girls who are overweight. I think this is why I feel so hurt right now because I'm lonely. I haven't been in a relationship since my last one ended 3 years ago. I don't need a man to validate me but I want to feel loved. I'm tired of hearing other women brag about their boyfriends..and how much drama they have in their lives but they are happy, and guess what? those women are skinny. Atleast skinnier than me.
There was this guy I vented about couple of months ago, I feel like he didn't like me either cause im overweight and ugly. Does that happen to a lot of women? Rejection makes you feel ugly and not worthy of love? That's how I feel right now. He is out with some girl right now..probably gettin' laid. That bothers me, I've still not let go of how I feel about him. I think that's because of my low self esteem. I don't know how to get over this self image of me. It just sucks. My life sucks right now. Work sucks even worse than anything else right now.
I don't even like going to MAC anymore. The MA's there look so pretty and so skinny and everytime I go to the mall it hurts me..cause' I wanna be that girl walking around the mall with my boots and jeans and fitted tees on.
You know I've also felt like I give so much of myself as a person to my family and friends. I care for them and I do things for them but I never get any of it back. I just don't wanna care anymore. I don't wanna be the nice one anymore.
I have this image of this girl who is curvy yet in shape ..who wears sexy yet sophisticated clothes but that girl is not me. I want to be her. I want to feel like her. I know a lot of men don't prefer to be with girls who are overweight. I think this is why I feel so hurt right now because I'm lonely. I haven't been in a relationship since my last one ended 3 years ago. I don't need a man to validate me but I want to feel loved. I'm tired of hearing other women brag about their boyfriends..and how much drama they have in their lives but they are happy, and guess what? those women are skinny. Atleast skinnier than me.
There was this guy I vented about couple of months ago, I feel like he didn't like me either cause im overweight and ugly. Does that happen to a lot of women? Rejection makes you feel ugly and not worthy of love? That's how I feel right now. He is out with some girl right now..probably gettin' laid. That bothers me, I've still not let go of how I feel about him. I think that's because of my low self esteem. I don't know how to get over this self image of me. It just sucks. My life sucks right now. Work sucks even worse than anything else right now.
I don't even like going to MAC anymore. The MA's there look so pretty and so skinny and everytime I go to the mall it hurts me..cause' I wanna be that girl walking around the mall with my boots and jeans and fitted tees on.
You know I've also felt like I give so much of myself as a person to my family and friends. I care for them and I do things for them but I never get any of it back. I just don't wanna care anymore. I don't wanna be the nice one anymore.