GreekChick
Well-known member
How come some relationships outlast others to the point where we tell ourselves "Wow, they have been together X years, that's crazy!" Do you really believe that a couple can last for so many years, all the while being 100% into eachother? You can be with the most amazing person in the world, and still look at other people and interrogate the potential you might have with this other person. I just think, like it or not, there will come a point where there might be a third party. Not necessarily cheating. Maybe lusting. How do you deal with this? If it's from his part, or from yours. To clarify a little bit better, let's say you have been with your partner for 4 years now, amd one day you meet someone and this person is just WOW....how do you deal with all the questions going through your head at that specific moment? such as "Im young, look at everything else there is out there!" "Will we get along better than I do with my former partner?" etc
And what do you do once the relationship becomes somewhat of a chore...yet you know deep inside you you're inlove with this person...And you don't want to leave them. Yet there is fighting. Little annoyances that may or may not cause bigger problems. WOuld you be scared to take a small break, for fear of losing this person for good? Or would you stick it out, making it somewhat more of a deeper chore?
And-
for all the stubborn partners out there,
What makes you admit you have been wrong? And why do you trouble admitting it?
I know I know, soooooo many questions. Can you tell im in a relationship? Lol...My coworker (25) has been with her bf now for 7 yrs..she told me it's really hard and you ask yourself aloooot of questions throughout it all. She also mentionned she has been attracted to others but never acted upon it. Is every relationship like this? Or is this type faulty? I hope I'm not completely delusionnal in thinking you can be with someone until your 80, and always always be sure about the way you feel.
And what do you do once the relationship becomes somewhat of a chore...yet you know deep inside you you're inlove with this person...And you don't want to leave them. Yet there is fighting. Little annoyances that may or may not cause bigger problems. WOuld you be scared to take a small break, for fear of losing this person for good? Or would you stick it out, making it somewhat more of a deeper chore?
And-
for all the stubborn partners out there,
What makes you admit you have been wrong? And why do you trouble admitting it?
I know I know, soooooo many questions. Can you tell im in a relationship? Lol...My coworker (25) has been with her bf now for 7 yrs..she told me it's really hard and you ask yourself aloooot of questions throughout it all. She also mentionned she has been attracted to others but never acted upon it. Is every relationship like this? Or is this type faulty? I hope I'm not completely delusionnal in thinking you can be with someone until your 80, and always always be sure about the way you feel.