Re: Apparently I look like a clown FOTD
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Originally Posted by amity;
my name is kori. im female, canadian. i've been lurking for a while, enjoying the artistic makeup that a lot of you guys can do. its very inspiring. so i tohught id join, get some extra help to improve my own.
haha didnt mean to blable.
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You'll pardon me while I've taken the liberty to point out and enbolden the
irony and
hypocrisy in your very, very first post on this forum, and hold it up against your very latest.
You remember, I know that it's been a while!
You know the one where you hoped people might embrace you and welcome you to the forum even though they had no idea who you were!? The one where it now appears you, actually, pretended to be the likable sort who'd really appreciated the
artistic side to the Art of Makeup?
It was rather an unconditional feeling wasn't it! To be welcomed by perfect strangers?
To be rubbing elbows in the figurative sense, of course, with the a wide range of up and coming Makeup Artist just starting out to
very well established professional Artists in the field of Arts and Entertainment, and Fashion who make our visual experience more worthwhile every time we pay to see a movie, open a fashion magazine, or watch TV. Who take the time to share their knowledge and expertise here on this forum with us all.
2 1/2 years is a long time, and to have posted 7 posts since then. And of those "7" generous posts in all of the 2 1/2 years that you've been a part of this "Makeup" community you decided to focus all of your thoughtless, useless, negative energy into a spitball of a response toward a thread that really...didn't need it.
I suppose it's merely not enough for you to be reminded that there, actually, is a whole upper echelon of High Fashion Couture Makeup that isn't,
even, about being creative or artistic. It's about being
productive in their field of work, it's their lifeblood...they live, eat, breath, walk, talk High Fashion Couture Clothing and Makeup.
It delights me to know that there are absolute outsiders to this world of which I speak. Mere mortal civilians have only a brief encounter with this world when they patronize a MAC store for instance. You're privy to it for only so long as you are there to enjoy what has been imparted to them from the top of their field in High Fashion with the skills they've worked hard to hone.
I'm sorry that you and the woman, who was just as
uncouth as you were
in the nature of how you expressed your opionions on this issue, haven't the imagination to understand this world. But I am relieved that there are people like you who simply don't have the stomach for it!
Wouldn't your certain abilities to win and influence friends better be served in other threads like say:
"My Pet Peaves", or maybe
..."I Hate It When...", or even starting your very own thread that'll garnish you much praise and accolades on your individual freedom of expression, entitled:
"I Enjoy Pissing On The Dreams of Others, As It Gives Me Such Satisfaction To Do So, And Because I Do So...I...Am Me!"
That always - goes over BIG!
Common sense and decency always, always, always...
trumps freedom to express an opinion!
As sorry as I am that you decided to advertise to the vast majority of the Specktra community at large in one of your "seven" posts that you were, in fact,
raised by wolves; I for one am thrilled that you decided to do so!
As you are right, we all need to be reminded that it isn't enough that we are confronted daily by difference of opionion by people we know. We, also, have to assaulted with it by people we don't know! Because life isn't fair...
and that's just the way it is!
I have a grim feeling that you'll never know what it means to be a positive, constructive, uplifting, and inspirational being in this world because you've simply refuse to believe that other people have feelings.
I read these 2 posts of yours...and I think to myself...yes very secure. Very secure in her natural sociopathic response.
That behavior is clearly defined in your further dispute and defense. It's futile to tell a sociopath that you hope they're never in a situation where they may need positive reenforcement and acknowledgement from other human beings of their peers.
As they simply haven't the feelings of compassion within them to pull off such empathy and be believable...or even passable...one wonders how they even get through the day.
In the future - I wouldn't try to defend your narcissism with such gusto...it's rather unbecoming - to say nothing of the fact that it is a
dead giveaway.
I don't need see a FOTD to see you for what you are. It's clear that any photo of you are no match against your very detailed opinion and your need to express it here in this thread.
God forbid you may, genuinely, need a kind word or phrase from another feeling human being to get you through to other side of a day...you may be soarly disappointed in how silent the room gets.
If there is one thing that you may come away with from this community is that there are other people in this world besides yourself...that's just how life is...
Get use to it!
I have, also, taken the liberty to quote your other posts for you to read, just in case you failed to read them back to yourself after you wrote them.
I don't imagine that this was how you wanted people here to respond or express themselves to you when you decided to join Specktra!
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Originally Posted by amity
You have gotten a lot of comments on this FOTD, and every single comment was positive. If everyone else can state their opinion, why can't I? Just because my opinion isn't an opinion that you like doesn't make it rude. Maybe if I flat out called you ugly, which I did not, then I could see why any of you people here would have a reason to try to bring me down.
You know what, it is as fair for you to like bold makeup as it is for me to NOT like it. It doesn't make me rude. It makes me... me. Not everyone on this forum is going to love what you do. That is how life is. Get use to it.
I am not the insecure one. Seems to me that YOU are the insecure one because you really seem to take to heart things people say. You get hundreds of positive comments but when that ONE person says they don't like it, you make a big deal about it + brag about it on the internet for attention.
I am not the insecure one. And for me to talk the talk and not walk the walk? When did I ever say I was a professional makeup artist? When did I say that I could do much better than her? I didn't. I said that I thought she was wearing too much. And that was my opinion.
Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder and that applies for EVERYONE. You may think its nice, but I don't. Its not the end of the world, and it sure as Hell does not make me rude for stating that!
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