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LMD84

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I'm sorry thsi happened and i can only imagine how upset and embarrassed he must feel. I knew a guy who had a similar issue and according to his gf, he never did manage to get it up. if you still like him then maybe you can just send him a text asking him out for a drink (non alcoholic!) and see what he says. i hope it doesn't stop him contacting you. these things happen and fingers crossed it was a one off for him
 

Mabelle

Well-known member
Give him a call or send him a txt. Don't talk about it. Pretend it didn't even happen.
Contacting him will let him know it wasnt a big deal to you, and you don't think any less of him.
 

Meisje

Well-known member
I wouldn't worry about it too much unless he can never get it up. In which case, he has a problem. But maybe it will end up being something you guys find funny later (although I would wait until he brings it up to ever speak about it again...)

If you continue hooking up and he simply can't, then he needs to take care of it --- go to a doctor, and if that doesn't work, a shrink. If it's a long-term problem, it's either physical or emotional.
 

nikaramirez

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Babe, you're better off finding someone who wants you as much as you want them. You have CLEARLY shown your interest by initiating convos w/ him, and it seems like he isn't receptive. What's done is done, don't wish for a rewind button - just don't waste any more of your time & energy trying to get with someone who isn't spending that same energy on you. You deserve more! Good luck :)
 

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