Ladies: Have you cheated?

Sexy Sadie

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Yes, in a former relationship. A while I felt as i was just there to fill his needs and put them above mine all the time, and I got no sex or attention what so ever, so I visited an x-lover.
 

Dominique33

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I did
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BUT clearly he deserved it. That was some years ago.

My ex bf didn't and I didn't either, why cheating when madly in love. Cheating is bad, ought to be avoided but some men do deserve it though let us be honest.
 

Glamstylz

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The simple answer yes, I have. Am I proud of it yes I am. The long story is I married my junior high through high school sweetheart. All during our school years we were close and inseparable. After graduation and one child later, things began to change. At first he seemed different. This is Tanya's denial. I shrugged it off and continued to love and live my happy little life. After a while, things changed even more and I found myself crying most nights. I actually believed I would die of a broken heart. This is the first time I have typed those words and to see them took me back in time my heart feels heavy just speaking or typing these words, so bear with me. A while longer goes by and we get Married.. Happiest day of my life.. Two days later I get a call from a woman telling me she and my husband are expecting a child. This is Tanya's broken heart. I Still stay with him. The girl loses the baby and he swears it will never happen again. We slowly find our way back together and life takes off again towards my own little slice of heaven. A year goes by, the phone rings and there is a young woman telling me she is sleeping with my husband and thought I should know...This is Tanya's shattered dreams. I immediately flip out and we split up for a few months. Again, I allow him to come home for the sake of keeping my family together, remember we have a daughter. I can tell this time that my feelings have changed and that innocent girl who would rather die than cheat on the man I have loved all my life was no longer there. So one day we go to a friends house and the friend proceeds to tell me that he is the one that always calls my phone asking to speak to my husband.. This is Tanya's intuition. I kindly say that's nice but that's not my phone you have been calling, but it's okay. The friend looks blank as he has just realized he must be calling my husbands girlfriends phone.he begs my pardon. We leave. Over the next couple of weeks we go back to this friends house regularly. I become familiar with the friend and we hit it off right out the gate. Strictly friends. Now keep in mind I'm 23 at this time. My husband and I move to the apartment across the hallway from this friend by the end of the year. At this point I know we are just going through the motions with one another lying to ourselves that we stay together for the child. My husband starts his old routine again. This time I had someone to keep me going in his absence. The friend across the hall. One night we have a party. Unbeknownst to me a female comes to the door demanding to see my husband she has a knife and wants to kill him because he had been lying to her about us being together. I find out about this after the party is over. This is Tanya's shattered life.The friend from across the hall was the one who answered the door. He told that he talked the girl out of it and when she threw out my husbands bag of clothes he hid them, so I wouldn't know. That was the final straw I asked him to leave and knew it was for good. Months go by and me and the friend from next door began to get closer. Finally it happens, we had sex!! Woo hoooo... That friend lays next to me to this day. My husband and I divorced and after a number of years the friend and I married. We have four awesome girls. This is Tanya's happy place. Now I admit I cheated because my first husband and I had not finalized the divorce before I slept with my current husband. However, he was long gone and their was no chance we would ever make amends. It's been 13 sweet years and I stand proud when I say yes I cheated.
 

Rebellefleur

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Ive dated other guys while being in a strictly open relationship but never told the guy.. im not sure if that counts as cheating.
But I wouldn't dream of cheating on my current BF even if we are in a long distance relationship.
I do believe in karma & that if you even think of cheating then you are probably not meant to be with that person. You're cheating because you feel like you're missing something.. emotionally or physically.
 

suciarubia

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Never have, never would. My Dad cheated on my Mom and I know how devastating that was (though they've since gotten back together and have been happy for many years since). I wouldn't want it to be done to me, so I wouldn't do it to my husband, either!
 

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