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    Have you been cheated on?

    I wish I could post 2 polls on one thread! Anyways, considering the topic about "all men cheat"..

    Have you been cheated on by your (past/present) man?
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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    Funny enough I have dated quite a number of men and I have never been cheated on and I am a pretty suspicious/nosey person so i think I would find out so i guess the answer is no

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    I haven't dated a lot of guys, but my last ex did cheat.
    I think it'll be interesting to see the poll results, but even though it's happened to me, I still definitely don't believe that all men cheat.
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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    Yes I have...Once...And it was his last opportunity he received to do such a thing to me... He was tossed like old garbage....

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    fortunately I have never been cheated on, cheating is a definite deal breaker to me
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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

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    Yes I have...Once...And it was his last opportunity he received to do such a thing to me... He was tossed like old garbage....

    Exactly!
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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    ooo, i have a good story about this, which is why now i'm totally uncomfortable with long distance relationships and guys who rush relationships. obviously, as soon as i found out, he was totally gone, but it was this beautiful fiasco featuring myspace, myself, his ex-girlfriend, his cute neighbor, an under-aged girl from across the country, his best friend's little sister, and his under-aged cousin. needless to say, he got caught by all of us, and unfortunately, one of the girls was dumb enough to stick with him. the rest of us, however, after the choice words to eachother, kind of all became friends. totally weird. none of us have seen or heard from him since. oh, and last thing... turns out during all of this, he was "accidentally" still married to his first wife. loser!!!
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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    ^ he slept with his cousin?? WTF????????

    I have been cheated on, and ive cheated as well (only make out with other guys, not slept with any) I am a firm believer that when you find the one you are supposed to be with, you wont want to cheat. I know it sounds weird but once a cheater, always a cheater doesnt seem true to me! Maybe Ive just overly optimistic haha
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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    i've never been cheated on but i've only really had 2 serious relationships one with my now husband and one with a guy who was no good for me and use to get in rages with me, but that said he never cheated.

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    Every man Ive ever been with has cheated on me. Every. single. one.
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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    A relationship with a girl. Nothing was really defined, but there was definitely some level of commitment that didn't allow for sleeping with other people.

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    I'm pretty sure I was. I did some spying on AIM and made an alias and talked to the girl. So I am pretty sure I was played like an old game.
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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    even though he never admitted i KNEW he did something with this one girl i never asked cause i could already tell when i looked at those two. glad he's done with what a waste of human space for that A-hole!

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    Yup, I had a boyfriend a few years ago that I thought was cheating on me while he was down in San Antonio for 6 weeks with the air force. After he was home for a while, one day he came over after a night shift and fell asleep on my couch. A little while later his phone starting ringing, so I went to silence it so it didn't wake him up. It was a call from a girl I didn't recognize. After it stopped I got really nosy and looked at the pictures on his phone. It was Sept 9th, there were photos dated the 3rd with him and some blonde girl (I'm a brunette). At first it was just the two of them at a picnic, then its them making out. I was so angry I was shaking. So I woke him up and threw him out. Flash forward to now and we've been friends for a while, he's still apologizes for what he did to me, but we both know what we won't be getting back together ever.

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    oh and I dated a guy who I'm pretty sure he cheated, he still maintains he didn't. but he has this thing where if he just doesn't tell you something, its not the same thing as lying. but he and i dated for 1 1/2 years before he broke up with me and I kid you not, this is what he said: that he wanted to marry me some day, but wanted to sleep with other girls first. yeah wow, what a winner. and less than a week after that I found out he was sleeping with his manager from work. *sigh*

    The guy I've been with lately would never cheat on me, I'm sure of that. Even though we're going through a rough patch, I have confidence he's the one for me

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    No.

    and I hope I never am. But, I have faith the relationships I do have are strong enough and that's why there is no need to cheat. I never understood cheating on someone. To me that just means the feelings really aren't there or as strong.
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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    Yup!

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    Ya know, I have a sneaking suspicion that my ex may have cheated on me. I could really care less now but if I found out he did now I wouldn't be surprised. Very interesting though, he was trying to catch me cheating and lying (which I never was). But he was the one that was sending naked pictures of himself to females and wouldn't let me look at his phone.

    That's why his ass got straight broken up with and he was crying like a little bitch. Jackass.

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    No, at least not to my knowledge. There were a few guys who I wouldn't be surprised, but it doesn't really matter to me, if I found out now that they had I wouldn't be mad.
    Oh, and I forgot to say that I'm pretty positive my current boyfriend would never do that to me.

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    Haha back when i was in middle school this guy cheated on me with my best friend..

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    Nope thank goodness. Cheating is a deal breaker for me no matter what

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    The only man I've ever been in a relationship with that HASN'T cheated on me is my DF....While it hurt at the time that the others cheated on me, if they hadn't I might have never met the love of my life.
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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    I've been cheated on by ex's and I've served the dish up too.

    With dh he's never cheated even when we were long distance 3 years (if he had his mother would have happily told me) and since we've been married he's had plenty ass thrown at him but keeps it in his pants

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    No, thank god. I'd be very afraid for the other person...

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    yep, my ex i was with for 9yrs ...and as a result of his cheating his son was born..i got a gut feelin one day, asked him, he denied it then 2mths later he brings his 1 1/2 year old to my house...He did that shit on purpose too cuz he knew i woulda mopped the floor with his ass if he came alone

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    Yes, I've been cheated AND I cheated on my current boyfriend.

    Luckily, all that is behind us.

    I feel very relieved the majority of women in this poll have been cheated on as well- it makes me feel less alone.

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    some men are just pigs.....and its true if they do it once they will continue to...they guilt and whatnot that goes with it is dealt with the first time...the rest to them...not a big deal....
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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    Quote:
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    some men are just pigs.....and its true if they do it once they will continue to...they guilt and whatnot that goes with it is dealt with the first time...the rest to them...not a big deal....

    I don't think most guys are like that, to be honest.

    At least, I hope not!!

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    yeah I agree with cutetoughgirl when she says they continue to cheat cause the guilt gets dealt with the first time, my ex told me &quot;I felt really bad the first time, but you know what they say &quot;it gets easier every time&quot;&quot; Prick.

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    Re: Have you been cheated on?

    yup - ive been cheated on with every guy ive been with - my ex, whom i thought was the love of my life cheated on me more then twice - the first time i forgave him and we were 2ghter for 3 years, i really thought he changed - a few months ago my friend saw him with another girl and she told me - he hasnt called or text me since - what a coward!!

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