Long story short, This is what I ended up with, http://www.yusrablog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Thandie-Newton-Long-Blunt-Haircut.jpg
Minus her bangs, my hair is all one length.
And THIS is what I wanted. http://i52.tinypic.com/2jcudcn.jpg
I actually showed that photo to the stylist...