Tinkerbell9245
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Since you guys were so helpful last time I posted, I have another guy problem I need to rant about.
It's been almost a year before I've been able to trust another guy after my last relationship. All the dates I've been on since then I hear what the guy I just don't believe what they are saying.
So my one best friend knows this and was saying that I just needed a really nice guy for once. So told me that she had know this one guy for like over a year and he would be great for me, so I was hesitant but agreed.
He seemed like a really nice guy at first, and I knew he liked this other girl (that he had never met, I don't know how he ended up talking to her in the first place) but he said that he was over that. So he would talk to me almost every day on like aim and like call me every night and he would kept saying like this cheesy pickup type lines, but they were cute. But I would never like really believe anything he said to me because I have a trust issue with guys. So he would ask my best friend why like I wouldn't believe anything he said. So she told him tha the would have to do something out of his way to prove that he really did mean what he'd say. So he started telling my friend how he was going to this big thing for me for valentines and was like asking what I would want and everything.
So then a few weeks later I noticed he was talking this girl, that he had never met before, more and more and more. So I asked him about it the one night and he was like I told you I'm over it. So then the day before Valentines Day he didn't mention anything about, and I was okay maybe he wants to make it a surprise. Then I heard nothing all Valentines Day until after 11:30 that night and then he still didn't mention anything. So I brought it up and it caused this huge fight and I ended calling my best friend at like 1 in the morning crying because of the whole fight and she was like I don't understand what happened to him and stuff but said she would find out.
When she asked him about what his problem was and stuff he acted like nothing was wrong and that I was overacting. He then denied ever liking me and then denied that he ever mentioned doing anything special for me for Valentines Day. And he went on to say that he doesn't even know why I was so mad, because he never liked me and he never stopped liking this girl he had never met. I figured that she suddenly started showing him all this attention to get him to stop liking me.
I've talked to him about it twice since then to try to resolve things and like still stay friends or something, but each time its ended after hours of fighting.
It was the Worst Valentines Day ever and I refuse to talk to him now because he acts like he did nothing wrong. And everything he says is lies because he'd say something to me and then he'd say something totally different to my friend to try and make himself still seem like a good guy.
So now after I thought I was really getting over my trust issue with guys, its ruined all over again!
It's been almost a year before I've been able to trust another guy after my last relationship. All the dates I've been on since then I hear what the guy I just don't believe what they are saying.
So my one best friend knows this and was saying that I just needed a really nice guy for once. So told me that she had know this one guy for like over a year and he would be great for me, so I was hesitant but agreed.
He seemed like a really nice guy at first, and I knew he liked this other girl (that he had never met, I don't know how he ended up talking to her in the first place) but he said that he was over that. So he would talk to me almost every day on like aim and like call me every night and he would kept saying like this cheesy pickup type lines, but they were cute. But I would never like really believe anything he said to me because I have a trust issue with guys. So he would ask my best friend why like I wouldn't believe anything he said. So she told him tha the would have to do something out of his way to prove that he really did mean what he'd say. So he started telling my friend how he was going to this big thing for me for valentines and was like asking what I would want and everything.
So then a few weeks later I noticed he was talking this girl, that he had never met before, more and more and more. So I asked him about it the one night and he was like I told you I'm over it. So then the day before Valentines Day he didn't mention anything about, and I was okay maybe he wants to make it a surprise. Then I heard nothing all Valentines Day until after 11:30 that night and then he still didn't mention anything. So I brought it up and it caused this huge fight and I ended calling my best friend at like 1 in the morning crying because of the whole fight and she was like I don't understand what happened to him and stuff but said she would find out.
When she asked him about what his problem was and stuff he acted like nothing was wrong and that I was overacting. He then denied ever liking me and then denied that he ever mentioned doing anything special for me for Valentines Day. And he went on to say that he doesn't even know why I was so mad, because he never liked me and he never stopped liking this girl he had never met. I figured that she suddenly started showing him all this attention to get him to stop liking me.
I've talked to him about it twice since then to try to resolve things and like still stay friends or something, but each time its ended after hours of fighting.
It was the Worst Valentines Day ever and I refuse to talk to him now because he acts like he did nothing wrong. And everything he says is lies because he'd say something to me and then he'd say something totally different to my friend to try and make himself still seem like a good guy.
So now after I thought I was really getting over my trust issue with guys, its ruined all over again!
