As you're a pale lady like me, definitely the Dazzlelight. For me Grand Entrance was the absolute best but Dazzlelight is the only one I can get that's anywhere near as good as a highlighter. Phloof is a good highlighter if you're going for full-on shimmer or the more metallic pigments, but if I'm doing something that dramatic I use Silver Fog to highlight (or one of the reflects pigments). Shroom is a pretty good all-over colour for me, but not light enough as a highlighter.