iio
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Our mom has been bringing this guy to our house while my dad is traveling for work. He is like 23 years old and she is almost 40. We've been hearing them moaning and groaning and it just grosses us out. My parents have issues with each other. My mom doesnt work, she parties a lot, she still takes drugs even though she was arrested for it and is taking some classes for it and my dad is paying for her classes. She thinks my dad is cheating on her with women from other countries...and talks about how he better not be doing that...when she is also doing the same.
Im sure my dad may be doing something while he is at work in these other countries but he doesnt bring it to the house. With my mom, my brother and I always hear her gossip about other poeple and talk about drugs. Then she brings a guy over and she even introduced him to my bf! and my bf is all like " I shouldnt be here...I feel like im betraying your dad". I feel really disappointed in my mom when I see her acting single and talking to this guy like she has no husband. Like really...I dont want to see it. I dont know why she doesnt go to his house and do their thing. I even ask her if he has his own place so he doesnt have to come here at our house and she just ignored me.
I soemtimes feel like my dad let her gets away with things...like money and her arguments. Shes always saying that my dad is nothing with out her, but at the same time she wouldnt have anything without my dad because he is our only supporter. When my dad left a week ago he said to watch and take care of my brother and that he gave our mom $300...$100 of it was for her diversion class and the other $200 for food and whatever we needed like gas...and the next day when it was time to go grocery shopping my mom said that she only has $60 for food. And im like what?! I said " I thought dad gave you a couple hundred?" and she just ignored me. I mean Im sure she had extra money but I think she uses it for her gas because she is always going out and during the day she comes and goes.
I dont know what to do with my mom. I feel bad that she feels lonely when my dad is not around...but obviously she is fine without him because she has her friends and this guy that she goes out with a lot now. I think that the only thing that is holding her back is that she doesnt have a job and has no money. It really upsets me when I see her on myspace posing with this guy that she is seeing and I see no pictures of my dad.
She has been getting hate mail about what she has been doing but she denies it. I think it is our fault for not saying anything....but I want to I just feel that she is going to ignore me or deny it. Even one of her ex friends tried to tell my dad about her bringing guys to the house, but he didnt believe her because he didnt even like her to begin with.
I think my brother and I are going to tell my dad. I just feel that their relationship is not getting any better. It really bugs me...I'd just rather move out with my brother and have us two live together. Really...I hate hearing my mom argue with my dad. She can be a total hypocrite and I want to say something but its hard to. Last time I said something we got into the most biggest fight she wanted to kick me out and I just wanted to punch her. I wanted to hit her so bad to get her head out of her ass and start thinking about us and not her social life for once.
What should I do...I dont know where to start.
Im sure my dad may be doing something while he is at work in these other countries but he doesnt bring it to the house. With my mom, my brother and I always hear her gossip about other poeple and talk about drugs. Then she brings a guy over and she even introduced him to my bf! and my bf is all like " I shouldnt be here...I feel like im betraying your dad". I feel really disappointed in my mom when I see her acting single and talking to this guy like she has no husband. Like really...I dont want to see it. I dont know why she doesnt go to his house and do their thing. I even ask her if he has his own place so he doesnt have to come here at our house and she just ignored me.
I soemtimes feel like my dad let her gets away with things...like money and her arguments. Shes always saying that my dad is nothing with out her, but at the same time she wouldnt have anything without my dad because he is our only supporter. When my dad left a week ago he said to watch and take care of my brother and that he gave our mom $300...$100 of it was for her diversion class and the other $200 for food and whatever we needed like gas...and the next day when it was time to go grocery shopping my mom said that she only has $60 for food. And im like what?! I said " I thought dad gave you a couple hundred?" and she just ignored me. I mean Im sure she had extra money but I think she uses it for her gas because she is always going out and during the day she comes and goes.
I dont know what to do with my mom. I feel bad that she feels lonely when my dad is not around...but obviously she is fine without him because she has her friends and this guy that she goes out with a lot now. I think that the only thing that is holding her back is that she doesnt have a job and has no money. It really upsets me when I see her on myspace posing with this guy that she is seeing and I see no pictures of my dad.
She has been getting hate mail about what she has been doing but she denies it. I think it is our fault for not saying anything....but I want to I just feel that she is going to ignore me or deny it. Even one of her ex friends tried to tell my dad about her bringing guys to the house, but he didnt believe her because he didnt even like her to begin with.
I think my brother and I are going to tell my dad. I just feel that their relationship is not getting any better. It really bugs me...I'd just rather move out with my brother and have us two live together. Really...I hate hearing my mom argue with my dad. She can be a total hypocrite and I want to say something but its hard to. Last time I said something we got into the most biggest fight she wanted to kick me out and I just wanted to punch her. I wanted to hit her so bad to get her head out of her ass and start thinking about us and not her social life for once.
What should I do...I dont know where to start.