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    Mine's coming up on the twelfth and I don't feel remotely old enough to be as old as I am... There's a fair bit of anxiety, because it's one of those 'threshold' years, ending in a zero and all, and I just feel like I've got so little to show for what I've been doing with all this time.

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    I would never do my 20's again. I can't wait to reach 30.

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    I'am going to be 30 soon in a few months not looking forward to it actually lol.Everyone I know is married or has kids or I always hear about people getting engaged at work or how someone is pregnant and I'am not even in a relationship right now and I just kinda feel like everyones ahead of me in terms of where they are going or what they are doing.I'am single so I want kids / marriage and because I'am reaching 30 idk if its ever going to happen or not and sometimes it makes me really depressed / down on myself but the guys I have dated and been interested in were all jerks in terms of commitment and what not like last time I really liked someone it was my one guy friend and I told him I liked him he never even contacted me after that lol like at all we havent spoken since so I think that really affected me and made me even more guarded towards men in general.Oh and he made a comment that he wanted to hook me up with his cousin yeah .... really unclassy of him of course he said that before he really knew but still like he would flirt with me and for me to be with his cousin I would think that would be weird for him but I guess not lol its probably better we never spoke after that situation.He would make comments that he was attracted to me so I guess I always kinda felt like he liked me too but yeah .... hes almost 30 too and hes in a very different place mentally than I'am lol like hes real immature for 29 though.Hes real into nightclubs /the bars and living the single life I guess but most men dont mature til late 40s even .... but I dont wanna wait around for him .I just ended that fake friendship so its still bothers me from time to time when I think back on it.

    But yeah in terms of career and knowing who I'am I am doing good but its the social aspect that kinda didnt fall into place yet like friends alot of them I ended the relationships with because they are just people that bring me down and make me feel bad about myself and I got rid of a lot of people from my past over the years and never spoke to them again.I didnt really like my 20s too much as far as dating and men are concerned and in your 20s you still kinda are trying to figure life out and everything it sucked for me personally lol.I would never want to re live my 20s college life wasnt the best for me .
    Last edited by Barbie1; August 12th, 2017 at 01:59 PM.

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