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    Re: virgin and confused

    He kind of sounds like a jerk. You should date like-minded people on that front.

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    Re: virgin and confused

    i was 19, my bf was 23.

    We were both waiting for someone we cared enough about. Good thing too cause the first time was sooooo embarrassing. im telling you, my hymen should have been used for nation security.

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    Re: virgin and confused

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    Donnnnnnt do it! In high school I was the only virgin outta my friends and they used to harsh make fun of me all the time. I felt pressured and I lost it to a guy that I didnt love and cheated on me with my best friends at the time. I felt soooo shitty about myself and didnt do anything with any other guy until 2 years later when I was 19. Then I slept with a guy I really cared about and we were together for 2 1/2 years and are thinking about getting back together. I wish I woulda lost it to him! Yeah and all those friends who made fun of me in high school... they are all at 20 guys where as Im at 2 I find having a smaller number way more desirable and most guys would agree with me! I think being a virgin at 20 is a great feat! its tough in a sex filled world and I think you should be proud of yourself! Not ashamed


    Jeeeez , you're gorgeous--whoever that guy was that cheated on you is an idiot because he didn't see the beautiful pearl he had in front of him.
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    Re: virgin and confused

    PLEASE wait. I lost my virginity earlier this year - I was 17, and my beau was 19, we're both a year older now - and it was so worth it. I've had MANY opportunities to have sex, and all of my exes have pressured me to do so. I was so glad to have given my virginity to someone that truly loved and respected me. Like I said, giving your virginity to someone you love...its a beautiful experience!
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    Re: virgin and confused

    Sex is something you need to be sure of. As cliche as it sounds, you only get one chance and once it's gone, it's gone forever and the last thing you want is to live with regret.

    I know people people on both sides of the spectrum: some of them are still virgins (I am going on 21 so my friends are around the same age) and I have known people who were a bit more free, or have just had more sexual experiences. And after just hanging around these people, I know who is truly happy and who isn't. Sure, some of them did it for love, but those relationships are over and they look back and can't help but wish they could share that special moment with their true loves.

    You are still young, enjoy it There are so many different pressures tat go on in a young woman's life and worry about sex and your virginity shouldn't need to be added to those stresses. Regardless of if you are a virgin or not,you are beautiful, and your friends and family will love you. Simply having sex with someone isn't going to grant you love.

    As for being alone at home, I understand what you are saying. I think that having that lonely feeling building in the pit of your stomach can be most upsetting. But try not to let it get to you. It may take time but life has a way of pulling itself together even when you feel like giving up.

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    Re: virgin and confused

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    i was 19, my bf was 23.

    We were both waiting for someone we cared enough about. Good thing too cause the first time was sooooo embarrassing. im telling you, my hymen should have been used for nation security.


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    Re: virgin and confused

    I started dating my boyfriend (now fiance) when we were 15 (I'm 22 now) and we didn't have sex until we were 20. Many people though it was great that we were waiting for the right time, many though it was dumb. But you know what I think? Fuck everyone else. Don't let others opinions and views on you get in the way of living life the way you want to. Just because you don't want to give your body away like everyone thinks you should doesn't mean you should. Girl, do what's right for you. It's no one else's business. Be proud.
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    Re: virgin and confused

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    I'm so disappointed now...
    I told (again) to my friend if he is gonna come to my house this weekend. And he started to tell me excuses and, each time he gave me an excuse I gave him a solution, but he kept telling he couldn't come. So I finally told him that he could come, but he didn't want to.
    And do u know what he answered me?? He told me that he didn't want to come just to kiss or sleep (literally) and that we are not 15...
    As you can imagine I got angry and he started saying that he didn't mean to disappointed me...
    I get the feeling more and more often that men are not worth (I don't know if I have said it right...)
    Well, thank u everyone.
    xoxo

    This guy totally isn't worth your time if he's gonna be like that. At least you know where you stand with him now, rather than when he gets to yours and expects something more.

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    i was 19, my bf was 23.

    We were both waiting for someone we cared enough about. Good thing too cause the first time was sooooo embarrassing. im telling you, my hymen should have been used for nation security.

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    Re: virgin and confused

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    I was 20, so it's not weird or bad or anything like that, it's just you! When you're ready and you're with the right person for you there won't be any question at all, definitely don't rush it along. It's only weird if you make it weird, I promise it's not a big deal at all and it just shows your maturity to wait for when you're comfortable.

    Also I didn't ever think about it like I was "losing" my virginity, I thought about it like I was giving my partner the gift of it, in a show of trust.

    .......

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    never feel pressured.....do it when you feel ready.... being hard to get sexually is what drives men crazy BUT above all shows that you have a lot of respect for yourself.

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