X4biddenxLustX
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Crazy title I know but that's exactly how I feel right now. The only thing I'm missing is well a penis!
I recently decided to get out of a on and off type open relationship I've been in for almost going on 4 years with the same guy. Basically I felt really resentful towards him and can't find myself getting over those things. I also could no longer deal with the fact that I don't feel like I'm anywhere near on his top list of priorities for him even as just friends. If any of you are familiar from my earlier posts forever ago about a guy who can't commit to me, yes that is the guy I'm talking about now. I know, I know I should have left him a longggg time ago but I didn't and that just leads me to where I am right now - single and totally nottt getting laid.
Because we had I guess you could technically categorize it as an open relationship, he was with other girls to my disappointment and dismay when I was faithful to him. That is what I was referring to when I said I'm feeling resentful of him. So I decided to do the same since it was "okay" for him to do the same. Before we broke it off I guess I ended up hooking up with another guy who I had hooked up with before a few times. I decided to do that purely for physical pleasure nothing more, it was just sex. But obviously me and the dude end up splitting and I've tried getting the other guy to come have sex with me again but he won't!!!! It's either cause he's trying to talk to some girls and have a relationship with them (he's the type whose "sensitive" and likes to be in relationships for the sake of just being in one) or finds it amusing and a huge boost to his ego to play games with me even just over sex. He actually admitted that to me once. Anyways tonight I messaged him and asked if he wanted to come over this week and he totally ignores me. Meanwhile seriously for some reason it feels like 99% of the people around me are getting into relationships so the guys are taken, not that I was really ever interested in them but it's just like now they're not even an option for me at this point for a bootycall!!!! Like all these testosterone wielding men are all of the sudden turning into men who are sensitive with emotions and aren't afraid to show them and they all want to be in or already am in relationships with girls. It's like they're turning into chicks (not to try to stereotype or anything but you get what I mean!)!!!! This would of been fine when I did WANT a relationship and all that jazz instead of just sex with a guy but I'm feeling the total opposite. All I want is sex and having a high sex drive with ridiculously high standards for men (even ones I have sex with. yes I'll admit it, I'm a bit shallow.) is seriously messing up with my sex life!
Right now I just feel like total crap about myself. Like I'm seriously asking myself what's so wrong with me that men don't even want to have sex with me all of the sudden?! The fact that all these men are now entering relationships or want to be in one doesn't help me out at all. I just don't know what to do. Why is it that when I'm finally trying to take control over my life and sex life back that this happens? I thought it was suppose to be fun and adventurous being single again! But I was sooo wrong cause instead I feel like I'm turning into that loser that never ever gets laid =[
I recently decided to get out of a on and off type open relationship I've been in for almost going on 4 years with the same guy. Basically I felt really resentful towards him and can't find myself getting over those things. I also could no longer deal with the fact that I don't feel like I'm anywhere near on his top list of priorities for him even as just friends. If any of you are familiar from my earlier posts forever ago about a guy who can't commit to me, yes that is the guy I'm talking about now. I know, I know I should have left him a longggg time ago but I didn't and that just leads me to where I am right now - single and totally nottt getting laid.
Because we had I guess you could technically categorize it as an open relationship, he was with other girls to my disappointment and dismay when I was faithful to him. That is what I was referring to when I said I'm feeling resentful of him. So I decided to do the same since it was "okay" for him to do the same. Before we broke it off I guess I ended up hooking up with another guy who I had hooked up with before a few times. I decided to do that purely for physical pleasure nothing more, it was just sex. But obviously me and the dude end up splitting and I've tried getting the other guy to come have sex with me again but he won't!!!! It's either cause he's trying to talk to some girls and have a relationship with them (he's the type whose "sensitive" and likes to be in relationships for the sake of just being in one) or finds it amusing and a huge boost to his ego to play games with me even just over sex. He actually admitted that to me once. Anyways tonight I messaged him and asked if he wanted to come over this week and he totally ignores me. Meanwhile seriously for some reason it feels like 99% of the people around me are getting into relationships so the guys are taken, not that I was really ever interested in them but it's just like now they're not even an option for me at this point for a bootycall!!!! Like all these testosterone wielding men are all of the sudden turning into men who are sensitive with emotions and aren't afraid to show them and they all want to be in or already am in relationships with girls. It's like they're turning into chicks (not to try to stereotype or anything but you get what I mean!)!!!! This would of been fine when I did WANT a relationship and all that jazz instead of just sex with a guy but I'm feeling the total opposite. All I want is sex and having a high sex drive with ridiculously high standards for men (even ones I have sex with. yes I'll admit it, I'm a bit shallow.) is seriously messing up with my sex life!
Right now I just feel like total crap about myself. Like I'm seriously asking myself what's so wrong with me that men don't even want to have sex with me all of the sudden?! The fact that all these men are now entering relationships or want to be in one doesn't help me out at all. I just don't know what to do. Why is it that when I'm finally trying to take control over my life and sex life back that this happens? I thought it was suppose to be fun and adventurous being single again! But I was sooo wrong cause instead I feel like I'm turning into that loser that never ever gets laid =[