LMcConnell18
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ok, so my best friend of hella years has always been a little off.
she gets mad if i cant do anything with her
she ALWAYS wants me to do EVERYTHING with her!
like simple things... the store, doctors/dentist appts... things that people ordinarily do on their own.
well i recently moved into my grandparents house who live about 40 miles away from where she lives, and I used to.
I also go to school full time, and she doesnt. She used to work full time, but now she doesnt have a job.
Long story short... she asks me to go to the mall with her the other day... and i said no i have a lot of homework to do.
[not to mention thats a long ways JUST to go to the mall for an hour and then go home!]
so anyways... that same day, my grandmother and I decided to take a break from house cleaning//homework.. and we went and got our hair cut together.
i posted the new picture of my hair on myspace, and she leaves me a comment saying...
"busy doing homework? or busy getting your haircut? You dont have to lie to kick it!"
i dont understand why she feels its ok to dictate my life, and say rude shit about nothing!!
shes done stuff like this in the past too!
one weekend i wanted to stay in with my boyfriend instead of haning out with [and we usually are together 24/7]
and she called me in hysterics!!
screaming!!
totally ridiculous.
ever since that phone call a few years ago... i try to avoid telling her no by coming up with excuses that are acceptable, like family functions or other things that i cant get away from!
I dont know how to deal with this! i dont think it's normal.
I would love to be frank with her... but i would just rather avoid all the unneccessary drama that it brings...
is it just me? or is there something wrong here? and how should i go about it. I dont want to talk to her about it... because she doesnt believe that there is anything wrong with being like that. shes the same with her boytoy who broke up with her for being so in his business like that... but she still doesnt get it.
what do i do?
she gets mad if i cant do anything with her
she ALWAYS wants me to do EVERYTHING with her!
like simple things... the store, doctors/dentist appts... things that people ordinarily do on their own.
well i recently moved into my grandparents house who live about 40 miles away from where she lives, and I used to.
I also go to school full time, and she doesnt. She used to work full time, but now she doesnt have a job.
Long story short... she asks me to go to the mall with her the other day... and i said no i have a lot of homework to do.
[not to mention thats a long ways JUST to go to the mall for an hour and then go home!]
so anyways... that same day, my grandmother and I decided to take a break from house cleaning//homework.. and we went and got our hair cut together.
i posted the new picture of my hair on myspace, and she leaves me a comment saying...
"busy doing homework? or busy getting your haircut? You dont have to lie to kick it!"
i dont understand why she feels its ok to dictate my life, and say rude shit about nothing!!
shes done stuff like this in the past too!
one weekend i wanted to stay in with my boyfriend instead of haning out with [and we usually are together 24/7]
and she called me in hysterics!!
screaming!!
totally ridiculous.
ever since that phone call a few years ago... i try to avoid telling her no by coming up with excuses that are acceptable, like family functions or other things that i cant get away from!
I dont know how to deal with this! i dont think it's normal.
I would love to be frank with her... but i would just rather avoid all the unneccessary drama that it brings...
is it just me? or is there something wrong here? and how should i go about it. I dont want to talk to her about it... because she doesnt believe that there is anything wrong with being like that. shes the same with her boytoy who broke up with her for being so in his business like that... but she still doesnt get it.
what do i do?