dietcokeg
Well-known member
Hey everyone! haven't posted in a long time but here goes:
i've been with this guy for slightly over a year things were great for the first few months, we met in college and i went home for the summer so i didnt get to see him much but we got through that great. i've been back up in the city since september although i go to a different college now i live literally 5 minutes away from where he goes to college. he works twice a week as well as college.
He rarely calls me and i hardly see him even though i live so close to where he goes to college 4 times a week! we never ever do anything, he never takes me out or anything, complaines hes too broke - i am in no way materialistic and i am very independent and don't mind paying for myself - but come on ladies we all know we like to be treated special every once in a while.
on valentines day i didn't see him at all he didn't even text me saying happy valentines, he just text me saying hes on his way home from college. On our one year anniversary, same thing happened didn't even get a happy anniversary, not even a dollar store card! i had a talk with him about it and he felt bad and said its because he was broke - i said all i wanted was to see him and that costs nothing. we talked about how he never calls me or anything, he just texts me and even then its not that much. Now keep in mind i know he's not cheating or anything, that i know for a fact i just feel like he doesn't appreciate me.
he talks about his exes frequently and hes even been with two girls in his class in college (talk about pissing on your own doorstep). when we first went out toghether he told me he had a hard time getting over his ex that he was with for 3 years and all that and i understood bc i was in a 4 year relationship before. (he broke up with his ex about a year before we met so it was quite some time).
sorry this is so long - what do you girls think? hes still not over his ex? have any of you girls been with someone who made no effort? he genuinley thinks hes doing nothing wrong
i've been with this guy for slightly over a year things were great for the first few months, we met in college and i went home for the summer so i didnt get to see him much but we got through that great. i've been back up in the city since september although i go to a different college now i live literally 5 minutes away from where he goes to college. he works twice a week as well as college.
He rarely calls me and i hardly see him even though i live so close to where he goes to college 4 times a week! we never ever do anything, he never takes me out or anything, complaines hes too broke - i am in no way materialistic and i am very independent and don't mind paying for myself - but come on ladies we all know we like to be treated special every once in a while.
on valentines day i didn't see him at all he didn't even text me saying happy valentines, he just text me saying hes on his way home from college. On our one year anniversary, same thing happened didn't even get a happy anniversary, not even a dollar store card! i had a talk with him about it and he felt bad and said its because he was broke - i said all i wanted was to see him and that costs nothing. we talked about how he never calls me or anything, he just texts me and even then its not that much. Now keep in mind i know he's not cheating or anything, that i know for a fact i just feel like he doesn't appreciate me.
he talks about his exes frequently and hes even been with two girls in his class in college (talk about pissing on your own doorstep). when we first went out toghether he told me he had a hard time getting over his ex that he was with for 3 years and all that and i understood bc i was in a 4 year relationship before. (he broke up with his ex about a year before we met so it was quite some time).
sorry this is so long - what do you girls think? hes still not over his ex? have any of you girls been with someone who made no effort? he genuinley thinks hes doing nothing wrong