It may sound silly, but if you live in the UK, Natural Collection (available at Boots) have some great lipsticks & glosses. I may just sound like a cheapo now
, but I think they have some really pretty colours that arent too gareish. I know how you feel, I dye my hair very dark brown/black and am rather fair skinned.
Some I reccomend are:
Apple Blossom l/s
Candy Mist l/s
Raspberry Ripple l/g
Theyre not going to as long wearing as Mac but at 1.95 (3 for £5) theyre worth a go.
Also its a given, but Barry M are definately worth checking out. Im dying to get the new Peachy pink lip paint
As for Dazzleglass I think Bare Neccessity would be a great look, a pink-ish peachy colour. Possibly even Smile.