Ever been paid for sex?
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talk2mesun
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Negative!
CantAffordMAC
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No. My friend has though. She used to be very loose, and I've heard almost all of her stories of getting money for sex. She also had sex for cell phones, she was taken shopping before/after having sex, she got food/taken out to restaurants, and also had sex to get a ride home.
d_flawless
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no, i wouldn't resort to that. not to sound bitchy or judgemental, but that's not for me...
landonsmother
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that's gross. i haven't done that before because i respect myself way too much to be in that position.
ilurvemakeup
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Sorry nope. I've only had one sexual partner in my entire life, my husband. Paying for sex is rather disturbing and disgusting...
j_absinthe
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In all seriousness, boobies and boldy honest usertitles aside, I have nothing against sex work. In fact, I'm friends with several sex workers. As long as you're a consenting adult and making sure precautions are taken as far as safety and discretion, I don't see a problem with it.
Shimmer
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Not really. You're paying them to leave...not to fuck. At the end of the night, the transaction isn't for the intimacy, it's for not having to deal with the morning after post coital bullshit that so many sexual encounters bring.
No, I've never paid, nor have I been paid, for sex.
Originally Posted by ilurvemakeup
Sorry nope. I've only had one sexual partner in my entire life, my husband. Paying for sex is rather disturbing and disgusting... |
Not really. You're paying them to leave...not to fuck. At the end of the night, the transaction isn't for the intimacy, it's for not having to deal with the morning after post coital bullshit that so many sexual encounters bring.
No, I've never paid, nor have I been paid, for sex.
MxAxC-_ATTACK
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I had a friend like this too, She had sex and in return she got :dinner at expensive restaurants, shopping sprees, Cell phones, really cute shoes, and money, she ALMOST got a car . She was really strapped for cash, and she always would call me before she went to the guys house, to tell me where she was in case anything happened , she also called me when she got home.
I however, have never been paid for sex, nor paid FOR it
anything close would be made jokingly " how much do I owe you"
| Originally Posted by CantAffordMAC
No. My friend has though. She used to be very loose, and I've heard almost all of her stories of getting money for sex. She also had sex for cell phones, she was taken shopping before/after having sex, she got food/taken out to restaurants, and also had sex to get a ride home.
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I had a friend like this too, She had sex and in return she got :dinner at expensive restaurants, shopping sprees, Cell phones, really cute shoes, and money, she ALMOST got a car . She was really strapped for cash, and she always would call me before she went to the guys house, to tell me where she was in case anything happened , she also called me when she got home.
I however, have never been paid for sex, nor paid FOR it
anything close would be made jokingly " how much do I owe you"
Raerae
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Lack of intimacy isn't always true. Not all johns are just paying to get their rocks off, and then get up and leave as soon as they go. Yeh, if it's a BJ on the side of the road thats one thing, but what if your his favorite call girl, and spend just as much time in the sack, as you do talking, going to dinner, whatever. Yah he's paying you, but at the same time, sex doesn't have to be the only reason. Goodluck haveing that stand in court though if you ever got caught.
As far as my opinion on it. I've never personally ever accepted money for sex, but I've known people who have. I considered it at one point as an means to an ends for quick money. But ultimateley the risks involved, both physically and emotionally made me glad that I never went that far. I did talk to guys who regularly paid for sex though, for whatever their reason around the time I was considering it. As well as the girls who were in the business of ho'ing. I always found the reasons some guys used to rationalize haveing a escort on the side to be really interesting. Since in their minds, their doing their wives a favor, not cheating.
| Originally Posted by Shimmer
Not really. You're paying them to leave...not to fuck. At the end of the night, the transaction isn't for the intimacy, it's for not having to deal with the morning after post coital bullshit that so many sexual encounters bring. |
Lack of intimacy isn't always true. Not all johns are just paying to get their rocks off, and then get up and leave as soon as they go. Yeh, if it's a BJ on the side of the road thats one thing, but what if your his favorite call girl, and spend just as much time in the sack, as you do talking, going to dinner, whatever. Yah he's paying you, but at the same time, sex doesn't have to be the only reason. Goodluck haveing that stand in court though if you ever got caught.
As far as my opinion on it. I've never personally ever accepted money for sex, but I've known people who have. I considered it at one point as an means to an ends for quick money. But ultimateley the risks involved, both physically and emotionally made me glad that I never went that far. I did talk to guys who regularly paid for sex though, for whatever their reason around the time I was considering it. As well as the girls who were in the business of ho'ing. I always found the reasons some guys used to rationalize haveing a escort on the side to be really interesting. Since in their minds, their doing their wives a favor, not cheating.
Shimmer
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I was actually referencing physical intimacy not mental/emotional intimacy.
I've known three or four guys who've paid for sex, and, while chatting with the girl was a nice segue from the sex, ultimately, he was paying her to provide a GFE while not actually being a girlfriend and not being a fulltime responsibility.
| Originally Posted by Raerae
Lack of intimacy isn't always true. Not all johns are just paying to get their rocks off, and then get up and leave as soon as they go. Yeh, if it's a BJ on the side of the road thats one thing, but what if your his favorite call girl, and spend just as much time in the sack, as you do talking, going to dinner, whatever. Yah he's paying you, but at the same time, sex doesn't have to be the only reason. Goodluck haveing that stand in court though if you ever got caught. As far as my opinion on it. I've never personally ever accepted money for sex, but I've known people who have. I considered it at one point as an means to an ends for quick money. But ultimateley the risks involved, both physically and emotionally made me glad that I never went that far. I did talk to guys who regularly paid for sex though, for whatever their reason around the time I was considering it. As well as the girls who were in the business of ho'ing. I always found the reasons some guys used to rationalize haveing a escort on the side to be really interesting. Since in their minds, their doing their wives a favor, not cheating. |
I was actually referencing physical intimacy not mental/emotional intimacy.
I've known three or four guys who've paid for sex, and, while chatting with the girl was a nice segue from the sex, ultimately, he was paying her to provide a GFE while not actually being a girlfriend and not being a fulltime responsibility.
Raerae
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Haha... Yeh i love the whole, GFE "Girlfriend Experience."
But yeh I'm gonna agree. I think the emotional experience only goes so far. Considering how every girl out there eventually ends up on some "review" website so guys can rate how good of a lay they are for the money.
But yeh I'm gonna agree. I think the emotional experience only goes so far. Considering how every girl out there eventually ends up on some "review" website so guys can rate how good of a lay they are for the money.
xolovinyoo
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lol, a friend. well not really a friend, used to post himself on craigslist and get customers like that.
babiid0llox
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bump! I find this topic really interesting.
However, I've never been paid for sex or have ever paid for sex.
However, I've never been paid for sex or have ever paid for sex.
xxManBeaterxx
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I hope no women ever gets paid to have sex. We aren't an object to purchase, we are to be respected and appreciated by men.
meaghanb2926
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Okay, in all honesty how many of you ladies have had sex with your husband or boyfriend when you didnt neccessarily want to and got something for it(whether a material item or a dinner, etc)? We all use sex from time to time to get what we want
It doesnt neccessarily mean that you are down on your local corner but sex can be a pretty persuasive tool!
