Ooh cosmetix, I'm rather envious of your dramatic snowwhite coloring, what lovely contrasts you have to play with! Wow, with blue eyes you can get away with great neutrals like grays, browns, creams and most of the earth colors. You can also use colors with a lot more pop! I'm thinking lovely, tasteful blues and greens that'll really enhance the colors of your eyes amidst a cloud of black lashes.
I'm 42, soon to be 43 next month. I have creases at the corner of my eyes that I try to minimize with peptides but will never go away because I don't plan on taking the botox route. I'm PROUD of those creases caused by all the smiles in my life!
If your eyelids are getting crepey, be sure to use a really good moisturizer or eye cream and let it absorb before applying eye makeup. Stay away from the overly shimmery, frosty shades because yep, they'll only accentuate the crepiness but don't listen to anyone about "age appropriate" shades, I don't believe in that! BTW, don't think you can only get away with totally matte shades. I use some shades with a satin finish and the slight shimmer is just perfect without going over the top, you know what I mean?
I got this tip from Anastasia, celebrity eyebrow artist; amazingly enough, letting my brows grow in just a little while keeping them well-groomed seems to give the illusion of more youthful eyes. Of course, the growing out stage was a little awkward
but worth it...