Girl Crushes?

[Mizz.Yasmine]

I've never been with another girl in a sexual way but I've always been attracted 2 them.I feel weird sometimes. I love my bf soooo much and he turns me on like crazy, more then any girl ever has or could, but I do get turned on really bad sometimes just looking at a girl that I think is hot.And it makes me feel bad. I would never bring another girl into our relationship and he's not into that either.We are both too jealous and both consider that cheating. So I've never really told him how I've really really fantasized about being with girls, I just deny it when he trys to say he thinks I like them, becuz I know he'd get scared and feel threatened or like he wasn't enough 4 me becuz he's kind of brought that up b4.

We get in fights sometimes becuz I will get an attitude if we are watching TV and theres a girl I secretly think is sexy and he's looking at her, and I'll say something stupid like ''stop staring...'' and he'll be like ''WTF!? what do you think she's hot, I'm just watching the show'' like he could care less.



Somebody tell me their like this too lol

I don't want to go out and have sex with another woman and I don't wanna call myself bisexual, I get really turned on by other females sometimes. Am I weird or what? I feel dirty about it lately.

 

[CantAffordMAC]

I think these are perfectly normal. I've had some. Sometimes when I'd watch a movie with my ex he would just comeout of the blue and say "I bet you like her..."

but I have been attracted to women for awhile now. Not like I want to date them. But I'd probably take it further than a crush lol. I dont think ur bi or crazy.....I actually think its normal

 

[florabundance]

Lol, Finding a woman sexy or attractive isn't a comment on your general sexuality, because we ALL do it. Seriously. They say that nobody is 100% straight, male or female, some just are more than others. Also, I read somewhere that the "girl on girl" fantasy is one of the top ones for women - whether that's cos we know it's hot to guys or just think it's kinky or whatever, i dont really know.
But yeah, You can see a woman and think she's hot without wanting to date her, just as my bf easily recognizes males who are attractive, he's not sexually attracted to them though.
I think it's actually better for people to just openly be like "that guy/girl is hot", because as a human race, we dont big eachother up half as much as we should lol

 

[LMD84]

seriously you are 100% normal!! i went through that stage about 2 1/2 years ago and to be honest i enjoyed that time in my life! i experimented a little, had some fun and now it's out of my system. i still now look at some girls and have a fantasy about them or whatever. but i feel that some people have such wilder fantasies than mine, mine is pretty tame! so don't feel dirty or anything. it's healthy to have such thoughts.

 

[duckduck]

Totally, totally, totally normal

You may want to look at the Kinsey Scale for some insight as to where you stand. My guess is that you are a 1 or a 2, but you can take a look for yourself. The Kinsey scale has since been greatly expanded and complicated by various groups, but I would say that the idea it conveys is good - for most people, sexual orientation isn't an all or nothing game. For the record, I consiter myself a 1.5

 

[mona lisa]

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Originally Posted by Mizz.Yasmine I've never been with another girl in a sexual way but I've always been attracted 2 them.I feel weird sometimes. I love my bf soooo much and he turns me on like crazy, more then any girl ever has or could, but I do get turned on really bad sometimes just looking at a girl that I think is hot.And it makes me feel bad. I would never bring another girl into our relationship and he's not into that either.We are both too jealous and both consider that cheating. So I've never really told him how I've really really fantasized about being with girls, I just deny it when he trys to say he thinks I like them, becuz I know he'd get scared and feel threatened or like he wasn't enough 4 me becuz he's kind of brought that up b4. We get in fights sometimes becuz I will get an attitude if we are watching TV and theres a girl I secretly think is sexy and he's looking at her, and I'll say something stupid like ''stop staring...'' and he'll be like ''WTF!? what do you think she's hot, I'm just watching the show'' like he could care less. Somebody tell me their like this too lol I don't want to go out and have sex with another woman and I don't wanna call myself bisexual, I get really turned on by other females sometimes. Am I weird or what? I feel dirty about it lately.

Well, you could always tell your boyfriend that it is one of your "fantasies" to doll up and dress him as a woman so you can play "lipstick lesbians" with him. (You can perhaps use that approach as an excuse to practice your makeup techniques.) I am not sure how "hot" of a "girl" he would make and (of course) if he has facial hair that would probably not work all that well but there is an idea for you anyway that may help.

 

[PolyphonicLove]

LOL, I'm the same as cantaffordMAC, but my Beau knows already, since I told him. He's like..."Are you Bi? You sure? You know I'm not gonna let you leave me for a girl, right?" Hee. Its totally normal. Just because you're attracted to women doesn't mean you're a bi or anything like that. LMD84 is right - those thoughts are healthy! You could even try watching lesbian porn if you were comfortable enough to do so.

Duckduck, I think I'm a 1.5 as well

 

[pinkvanilla]

I agree I think it is completely normal. Actually I don't really know of any girl who can't tell me of another girl they find attractive!

IMO it is definitely just a girl thing to have girl crushes

 

[feeltherain]

I'm also newly discovering my attraction to girls. But like you said, I wouldn't necessarily want to be considered bisexual, because I wont even think about being in a relationship with a woman, I just think they're beautiful. I think there's nothing wrong with that, in fact I think it's a good thing to be so open-minded.
I talked about this to a friend of mine too, and she felt the exact same way.
Hey, girls are gorgeous, no one can resist them