Essjica
Well-known member
Okay so since you guys gave me such great advice with my last post, I'm coming back for more but this time for a friend (I'm calling her bf). In my group of friends, I'm usually the one everyone asks for relationship advice but this time, I'm at a loss of words. They were already having problems but one night she's working late at night, he decides to have a little get-together with his buddies and invites this girl he's becoming pretty good friends (I'm calling her girl) with and her friend. He even lies to her saying that he's going to bed. They're all drinking and he's getting flirty with girl and winds up holding her hand and laying his head on her lap and possibly texting her saying "I want you next to me" (this one's a possibly because he admits to the rest of it but not to that but girl said it's true but no proof). Anyways, he admits the next day what had happened and that he lied. She's really hurt obviously and asks him not to talk to girl again. He tells bf that he would never do this to her again because he doesn't like hurting her like this. A couple days go by and everything was getting really really good. Better than before they were having problems. Then friend informs us that he called girl to tell her what was going on between him and bf (remember they were becoming really good friends). Bf confronts him but this time is angry and ignores his calls for 4 hours and he was so sorry he ended up leaving work early and writing her this humongous letter on why he's so sorry and how she's the only one for him. I've read this "essay" and it seems pretty convincing and for real. The question is... how do you trust someone after they've done all of this? How do you trust someone after they've done anything to break your heart? It's breaking my heart just to see her all depressed all the time like she is and I just thought I'd give it a try here on Specktra. Any advice at all would be helpful!