I Can't Flirt :(

[chocolategoddes]

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Originally Posted by ms.marymac Does he talk about other girls to you? That could be an indication of where he sees your friendship, I think.

Actually, he hasn't, which gives me some hope. We casually discuss relationships; we even had a conversation about how porn affects relationships and we agreed on a lot of points, but he never brought up a specific girl.
I took everyone's advice and I've just been "myself" but I'd flash him a smile every once in a while (omg that rhymes!).
I really don't want to overanalyze everything he does but at least I haven't scared him away...yet. :/

 

[MaskedBeauty]

I know how you feel. I've always been in the "friend zone" as well. But I've had relationships. I just kept being myself and you know what, that's what guys like. There's a lot of guys that love that a girl can hang with him and the guys and not bitch about it or ask 5 mins into being there when they're gonna leave. Guys don't like when a girl tries to hard or is fake. Just be yourself and don't worry about it. If you really want something with this guy I would honestly just be straight up with him and just one day say "hey I just want to be up front with you and let you know that I do like you." See what he says. The worst he could do is say he just wants to be friends. And if he does say that then guess what.. at least you didn't waste your time wondering ya know? Good luck and I hope this helps!

 

[luvsic]

I think everything that I wanted to say here has been pretty much said!

I can really empathize girl, except I get the "kid sister" (no matter what I wear or how I act) instead of "one of the boys"...it's very frustrating. All in all, I have discovered through experience that guys who are meant to be attracted to you will be attracted to you in your purest state...meaning, you won't have to fake anything. You won't have to even fake flirting. It'll just happen.

Except, I have mostly attracted guys I am not attracted to back so meh, what do I know...

Good luck!!

PS: haha, maybe you can invest in that Victoria's Secret miraculous bra and see if it works! I have to test drive it, but I have a feeling it's going to work wonders once I do

IT REALLY IS MIRACULOUS! (partially) kidding. Hey, you're young + in college! Experiment around, that's what this time in your life is for

 

[Boasorte]

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Originally Posted by BeccalovesMAC just bend over in front of him. lmao jk smile and make lots of eye contact. You really dont have to say much. he will get the drift

my answer for everything. Touching ur toes will get u far!!!

But IMO I'd keep being myself, but then start asking him questions."Do you have a GF?" "Let's go out to dinner" " How do you see me?" etc.