mzjae
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So last week I found out I was pregnant and I told my boyfriend. We both agreed that we don't have enough money to take care of a baby so we decided on an abortion. I went to the clinic today and I can take the medication abortion since I'm early enough. However I have to take it this weekend to be able to do it because next week I have to do the surgical one and I really don't want to do that. I told my boyfriend about it and he's mad at me because it's the weekend of his 21st birthday. He blew up on me and called me selfish because I didn't do it last week, but I couldn't because I didn't have any money. He's not even helping me out with the money, I had to ask one of my best friends for it. Now I feel hella shitty because he made me feel like it's all completely my fault. During saturday I'm going to be cramping like crazy and bleeding a lot and there's a possibility of some side effects. I'm little so I know that going to take a lot out of me. He was more mad because I asked him to take care of me and he doesn't want to because it's his 21st birthday and he has plans with his friends. All I've been doing since then was crying to my best friends and they offered to be there 24hours to make sure that I don't have any reaction to the medication. All my guy friends told me that they'd drop whatever and take care of their girl. My boyfriend asked one of his friends, who by the way hasn't really had a girlfriend, and his friend sided with him that he should enjoy his birthday.
I honestly don't know what to do. Am I being selfish or is he? I'm feeling horrible and I know I'm going to feel worse on saturday and it really hurts that he rather have fun with his friends than make sure I'm ok...
I honestly don't know what to do. Am I being selfish or is he? I'm feeling horrible and I know I'm going to feel worse on saturday and it really hurts that he rather have fun with his friends than make sure I'm ok...