xxainixx
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i'm faced with a unusual problem. ( oh btw, this is a relationship problem )
you see. i knew this guy about 4 months ago. and dint really though too much of it.. until he invited me over to his house one day. and from then on.. i practically *stayed* with him.. but the thing is.. though we do things couples do.. cuddle and such.. he have a girlfriend.
when i found out about this.. i asked him.. and he said that ours was a fling relationship. at that point of time, i wasnt very much in love with him so i said ok than.but inside,i hurt a little.. it's tough being with someone for almost everyday and have the person say they *dont really like you* but i just shrug it off..
about a month passed. he broke up with his then-girlfriend. but still.. he just wouldnt * ask me to be his girlfriend* granted , he didnt like me enough to be his girlfriend( words from his mouth )
we drifted apart... than one day, he started to invite me back to his home again. and i had a chat with his mother when he was asleep.
his mother told him to just CHOOSE 1 girl. and stop being such a flirt. and apparently, his mum told me that he chose me because he broke up with the other girl.
i can also see that he likes me more because i use to call him more last time and now, he'll be the one calling me out and such.
IM SICK AND TIRED of this.. he still has not asked me to be his girlfriend.. clearly, i've fallen in love with him despite me telling myself not to.
ps. i tried my best to summarize it... so it's a short version.. i dont have the energy to type every single detail out
you see. i knew this guy about 4 months ago. and dint really though too much of it.. until he invited me over to his house one day. and from then on.. i practically *stayed* with him.. but the thing is.. though we do things couples do.. cuddle and such.. he have a girlfriend.
when i found out about this.. i asked him.. and he said that ours was a fling relationship. at that point of time, i wasnt very much in love with him so i said ok than.but inside,i hurt a little.. it's tough being with someone for almost everyday and have the person say they *dont really like you* but i just shrug it off..
about a month passed. he broke up with his then-girlfriend. but still.. he just wouldnt * ask me to be his girlfriend* granted , he didnt like me enough to be his girlfriend( words from his mouth )
we drifted apart... than one day, he started to invite me back to his home again. and i had a chat with his mother when he was asleep.
his mother told him to just CHOOSE 1 girl. and stop being such a flirt. and apparently, his mum told me that he chose me because he broke up with the other girl.
i can also see that he likes me more because i use to call him more last time and now, he'll be the one calling me out and such.
IM SICK AND TIRED of this.. he still has not asked me to be his girlfriend.. clearly, i've fallen in love with him despite me telling myself not to.
what should i do?
I thought of giving him a finale... either you take me as a girlfriend or we're quits.
give me some advices pls.. im really at crossroads
I thought of giving him a finale... either you take me as a girlfriend or we're quits.
give me some advices pls.. im really at crossroads
ps. i tried my best to summarize it... so it's a short version.. i dont have the energy to type every single detail out