preciouscharm
Well-known member
Since makeup/spektra is my escape I'm really hoping I can find some ladies in the same situation as me.
So I've been with my love for a little more than four years. Three out of those four years he's been stationed over in CA while im going to school here in FL. It's given our relationship SO MUCH strength and I really can't ask for anything more. We're best friends and support each other like no other. Lately here's the deal... We've always planned our future together and that's coming up faster than we now. By the time he's done with the air force I'll be done here with my undergrad. We are becoming so suddenly anxious to just be together already it's kind of driving us crazy. I'm already planning to graduate a year early and hope to get into med school there in CA. As much as I want to just pack up and leave to go there I know I have a good thing going here. I'm going to a good university and am heading in the right path, so I know I have to finish up my undergrad here. I hate the fact that I am becoming so depressed, its really taking a toll on me, because of the whole situation. We both work so hard yet always feel like we have to wait for something. The one thing that the long distance has taught me, is that I've learned to be an independent person and deal with my own stresses as opposed to always leaning on someone 24/7. It's the fact that we're both not getting what we deserve (each other) thats killing us both.
Do any of you ladies deal with this? How can I distract myself form the wait (I have a year and a half left for my undergrad). Thanks so much!
So I've been with my love for a little more than four years. Three out of those four years he's been stationed over in CA while im going to school here in FL. It's given our relationship SO MUCH strength and I really can't ask for anything more. We're best friends and support each other like no other. Lately here's the deal... We've always planned our future together and that's coming up faster than we now. By the time he's done with the air force I'll be done here with my undergrad. We are becoming so suddenly anxious to just be together already it's kind of driving us crazy. I'm already planning to graduate a year early and hope to get into med school there in CA. As much as I want to just pack up and leave to go there I know I have a good thing going here. I'm going to a good university and am heading in the right path, so I know I have to finish up my undergrad here. I hate the fact that I am becoming so depressed, its really taking a toll on me, because of the whole situation. We both work so hard yet always feel like we have to wait for something. The one thing that the long distance has taught me, is that I've learned to be an independent person and deal with my own stresses as opposed to always leaning on someone 24/7. It's the fact that we're both not getting what we deserve (each other) thats killing us both.
Do any of you ladies deal with this? How can I distract myself form the wait (I have a year and a half left for my undergrad). Thanks so much!